Sorry for posting again. Why do women feel bad about accepting money or other support through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?

I’m Potassium, a female member☆ When I first started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I also felt guilty about accepting money. Why did I feel guilty? Because I was having a good time, wasn’t struggling at all, and still earning money from it. In my case, earning ¥10,000 would take just under six hours of overtime, so I have a habit of mentally converting the time I spend with my papa (a male supporter) into overtime hours. The papa has probably worked and struggled hard to get where he is today. So I wondered whether I was really entitled to receive an allowance by simply benefiting from all the effort he had put into his long life. That inner conflict is where my guilt came from. Just as Aya said, my papa also told me not to feel guilty, so I started making a conscious effort not to. Now, so that both of us can spend happy times together, I want to become more beautiful and smarter for my papa, and I receive his support for that purpose. My papa also seems to be working hard so he can continue paying my allowance and gradually increase it. (Even if that’s not true, I can forgive him.) That’s why I enjoy the feeling of a pseudo-romantic relationship. If you look, I’m sure there are women who are open to that kind of pseudo-romantic relationship. But the person answering also needs to be the kind of papa who makes such a woman want to enjoy one with him. That’s just my personal opinion.

They do exist once in a while. But of course, they’re rare. Just imagine yourself dating and having sex through mama-katsu with a woman 20 or 30 years older than you. How much could you really enjoy it, and how long could you put up with it for the money? (lol) Women who are into older men are rare, too—and precious. There are a few here from time to time, so I’m always really happy when I find one.

I try not to feel too guilty. After talking it over with a few papas, I realized that they themselves feel, “I’m happy when you appreciate the money, but I don’t want you to feel guilty about it.” I think it’s obvious which they would prefer: a woman who looks gloomy and says, “I’m sorry for receiving so much…” while putting up with unpleasant things for the money, or a woman who smiles and says, “Thank you as always! Thanks to you, I’m able to enjoy my life and feel happy every day.”

You mean the question from two posts ago, right? I think it’s because we’re taught that making money or receiving money is somehow wrong. I used to feel that way myself, too.

Exactly. Even based on my limited experience, I’d say there’s hope lol That’s just my personal opinion, though—maybe my experience is pretty limited lol