Maki from the Tokyo team here as well.
I hope you can make the choice you won’t regret!
Since this is a papa-katsu interview, registering does come with some risks, such as your identity being exposed. That said, we’re happy to welcome people who simply want to hear more, so there’s nothing wrong with just coming in to talk!
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You don’t have to register on the spot. Just tell the staff at the club where you interviewed when you’ll get back to them, and they’ll wait for you.
I wasn’t planning to register right away either—I thought I’d take some time to think it over. But after hearing the explanation, I got too excited to wait, joined immediately, and sent out an offer as soon as I got home that day.
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> Could I have some time to think it over?
That’s perfectly fine, so there’s no need to worry.
However, I think it’s best to think of it basically like a job interview.
You apply, get accepted, and if you then decline the offer, you generally wouldn’t reapply to that company later. Some people may reapply and eventually join, but I imagine they’re in the minority.
With that in mind, I think it’s better to come in once you’ve decided that you really want to join.
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The responses do seem to be pretty harsh…
But I can also understand why women feel cautious.
The club probably wants as many women as possible to register, so I think you should go ahead and attend the interview without worrying too much.
That said, I once came across a woman who canceled her interview appointment about four times before finally registering. Her profile said, “I may not be fully prepared yet.”
In this case as well, you should be prepared for the possibility that it could affect the offers you receive if you actually register later.
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I agree—it’s best to decide first and then go in for the interview. You should be able to ask questions and clear up any concerns through chat as well.
After attending the interview and hearing what the staff have to say, you may still decide that it’s not for you. Compared with other dating clubs, I don’t think they’ll pressure you into going along with it, so you can feel reassured.
Marika
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It’s completely understandable to feel unsure, and it does take courage and commitment.
Even if you’ve already made up your mind, it’s natural to feel anxious or hesitate when you actually receive an offer and start wondering what to do.
If you haven’t made that decision yet, there’s still plenty of time before the interview.
Almost everyone passes the interview, so you don’t need to rush just to see whether you’ll get through. Take your time and think it over carefully.
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It’s not that you can’t do it, but please think it through carefully and make sure you’re prepared before going to the interview.
The interview takes up the staff’s time, after all, and you’d also be inconveniencing the other party. I often hear people say, “The interviewer was such a nice person that I felt reassured,” but there are many other staff members, and that person may be gone if they change departments. So you shouldn’t make your decision based on the personality of the staff member who interviewed you. This is something to think about rationally, not emotionally.
P.S.
I always feel this way, but Kaz and I really do have very similar ways of thinking, lol.
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No one has unlimited time, so I think it’s best to think things through beforehand and then go to the interview.
追加 after reading Mac’s answer:
I agree. Unless the topic is about personal preferences, we often see eye to eye.
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The fact that you’re assuming you’ll pass means you must be confident about your looks. That’s wonderful.
By the way, I’m typing this while taking a dump inside the Shinkansen gates at Nagoya Station.
If you’re still at the stage of hesitating about registering, going to the interview for Universe Club would only be a waste of everyone’s time, so the courteous thing to do would be not to go. It’s a little disappointing that you apparently haven’t learned basic social etiquette.
If you were 18, not knowing proper etiquette would be understandable, but you said you’re in your twenties, so…
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