I’m at a hotel with my papa (a male supporter) right now.
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He surprised me with two pairs of very luxurious lingerie and one dress I’d been wanting.
It’s worth well over one allowance payment.
I’ve never received gifts like this before. In this situation, should I politely decline the allowance for the way home? Or would it be more appropriate to give half of the gift value back?
I can never solve these things on my own, so I always turn to this Q&A box for advice.
My papa is in a conference call right now, so I’m secretly posting this.
Thank you in advance, and as always, thank you for your help.
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Be absolutely delighted about the presents, and make sure you accept your allowance too.
If you refuse the allowance or say you don’t need it, your papa (a male supporter) may get the wrong idea and think you prefer gifts, which could mean you stop receiving an allowance in the future.
Accept both the presents and the allowance.
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A surprise gift is always lovely ♡
I think it’s fine to accept it as long as you thank him for the gift and he still gives you your usual allowance.
That said, for your next date, I’d definitely wear the lingerie or dress he gave you and show him. I’d also prepare a little gift for him. It doesn’t have to be expensive—I’d want him to experience the same happiness I felt when receiving something thoughtful.
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The fact that it was a surprise makes it even more special! I can really feel how happy you are.
I’m sure your happiness has come across to your papa (a male supporter), so I think it’s perfectly fine to accept it. And I think you should accept the allowance as well.
If you try to decline it and he simply says, “Oh, okay,” wouldn’t that leave you feeling a little sad? So, if you want you both to remain happy, I think it’s best to tell him, “Thank you!” and let him know how happy you are!
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“Oh wow, is it really okay for me to accept this much…?”
When he gives you your allowance, try to look genuinely surprised.
It’s perfectly fine to accept the allowance—especially if it’s your first time meeting and it’s a surprise. You don’t need to hesitate even if it’s around two or three times the amount mentioned in the terms.
That said, if your reaction is too cold, he may suddenly lose interest in seeing you again. Since it’s a surprise, make it a fun and memorable day with a happy reaction.
Though, I suppose men are idiots because they like you so much that even that won’t make them walk away…
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Not sure if I’m too late, but…
Please take it as is. In return? Move your hips a little more than usual.
Oh, and if the dress and lingerie try-on session and fashion show haven’t happened yet, let’s start there.
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Try bowing your head slightly and saying:
“Since you bought me something this expensive, you don’t need to give me an allowance today.”
If your papa accepts your offer to waive the allowance, that was probably a lucky move—because he’s actually a stingy papa.
On the other hand, if he says:
“It’s a present, so that’s separate from your allowance.”
then, after going back and forth once or twice, say, “Thank you. I love you, papa♡” and give him a really passionate kiss. You’ll probably grow even closer.
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I think you should just accept it.
I sometimes give lingerie worth several times the allowance as a gift, too. Personally, I give gifts because I want to, so I don’t think it’s necessary to decline the allowance or return half of it.
It would be more disappointing if the gift ended up making things awkward between you.
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