Are there any sugar babies who are crazy about their boyfriends?
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I could tell from the answers that some sugar babies complain about their boyfriends. I truly love mine. He’s kind and funny, tall, exactly my type, graduated from one of Japan’s top schools, and despite being young, earns two to two and a half times as much as people his age. He’s also the most impressive I’ve ever encountered in terms of size. Honestly, I don’t think I’ll ever meet someone at his level again. I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) at 18 and have been doing it for three years, meeting lots of men, but I’ve never met anyone as perfect and wonderful as him in every way. I absolutely want to marry him.
I’ve also been wondering whether, if I’m serious about him, I should quit papa-katsu and start living more honestly.
Even when I’m intimate with a papa (a male supporter), I imagine that he’s [my boyfriend] in my head.
I’m not very good at juggling things, so the other day I accidentally called my boyfriend by my papa’s name. I managed to cover it up.
Honestly, I do want the money.
But I’m increasingly feeling guilty toward my boyfriend.
If there are any sugar babies who are madly in love with their boyfriend despite having no complaints about him at all, what are your feelings about continuing papa-katsu? Please give me some advice.
I think that if you want something truly important, you have to be prepared to commit to it.
If I were a woman, I’d probably quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) until I got married.
Then, after being married for a few years and settling into life, if your husband were really that high-spec, wouldn’t you cheat? Women would approach him on their own, and you can’t compete with younger women.
Maybe that would be the time for you to return to papa-katsu?
If you’re going to slip up, shouldn’t it be your boyfriend’s name in front of your papa (a male supporter)?
Saying your papa’s name in front of your boyfriend is absolutely unforgivable! Terrifying.
It seems like you’re not taking the relationship seriously enough.
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At only about 2–2.5 times what someone your age earns, there’s no guarantee that he’d be able to provide the money you need even if you got married. So for now, I think it would be best either to take a closer look at how you’re spending your money or to change the way you date so you don’t feel guilty toward your boyfriend—such as keeping it to dinner only (no intimacy).
That was my serious answer, but as everyone else has pointed out, there are plenty of things to question here. If he’s really that good of a boyfriend, more and more rivals may show up, so I hope you can get married soon.
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Did you fall for the terms of the arrangement, or did you fall for him as a person? Which is it?
No one is going to envy what you’ve written about. And if you really liked him, you wouldn’t need to write about it in the first place.
It seems you haven’t truly faced him as a person either.
And are you both really needed by each other?
I don’t think so—that’s probably why you’re able to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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If you’re not good at juggling things, it might be best to quit sooner rather than later.
Still, if he’s truly such a perfect man, I hope you can take the plunge with confidence, believing that he should be yours alone!
If he’s a man you like enough to want to marry, I’d imagine you’d hate having someone else—especially someone decades older whom you’re being paid to see—touch you. But I guess you feel differently.
—Akari
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Sorry for the somewhat offbeat answer.
I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) by aiming for a position that doesn’t compete with the boyfriend’s.
- Fully embrace being the wallet
- Be overwhelmingly chivalrous
- Never act like a man trying to get something out of it
These are things her boyfriend may want to do but can’t.
Popular men tend to act according to their own needs, right? I, on the other hand, always accommodate the woman.
I’m also in a completely different financial league from her boyfriend, so I give her plenty of money. Even if I’m giving her a monthly allowance, I don’t care in the slightest if there are months when we don’t even meet once—let alone have an adult relationship (intimate). I don’t mind being called a wallet, because that’s exactly what I am. I even tell them, “I’m your wallet.”
When you do all that, you can usually beat the boyfriend, lol.
I’ve got more staying power than the boyfriend, too, so it works out somehow.
Here’s some unsolicited advice for the papas reading this: don’t act like a man trying to get something out of it, okay? That’s papa-katsu 101.
Not being able to offer an allowance is understandable to some extent, but if you can’t make the allowance generous (well-paying), then you really shouldn’t act like a man trying to get something out of it. You’ll be labeled an annoying old guy and cut off.
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If there are any PJs who are doing papa-katsu despite having a perfect boyfriend they love deeply and have absolutely no complaints about, what are you feeling?
If you have no complaints, you wouldn’t do papa-katsu in the first place.
I think anyone who does papa-katsu despite having no complaints about her boyfriend doesn’t actually love him that much.
She’s taking him far too lightly. It’s honestly unforgivable.
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