I'm torn about signing up with the club again. It's been six months since I left. Right now, I have one monthly-arrangement papa (a male supporter) through the club and four low-paying ones. The low-paying ones are truly low-paying, and most are dinner-only (no intimacy) once a month, so my monthly-arrangement papa is my main source. I make about 300,000–400,000 yen a month from papa-katsu, usually meeting a papa once a week. I'm already able to live comfortably without much effort, but since I could earn more by being more active, I'm unsure whether to register with the club again.
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To be honest, I was active through the club for about a year and met just under 30 men, but only about one in five or six seemed capable of having a “normal” relationship. Many wanted me to be their girlfriend despite being 30 or 40 years older, or pursued me in ways that made me uncomfortable.
Every time I received an offer, I would think, “What if this person is weird too?” and end up feeling fed up and quitting.
I don't mean to brag, but I think I have a good appearance and figure. I'm still only 20 and a student, and I have plenty of free time, so I think I would receive offers if I registered again. You never know what the future holds, so I do want the money.
However, I keep going back and forth: Is it really worth doing if it causes me stress? On the other hand, wouldn't it be better to turn my youth and free time into money while I can?
If you had plenty of free time, would you turn even a little of it into money?
If you weren't struggling financially, would you continue papa-katsu without pushing yourself and simply maintain your current situation?
I'm really unsure.
I may be different from everyone else here, but I think it’s risky to rely entirely on your papa (male supporter) for your livelihood.
It’s important to have a proper job and maintain a normal sense of money and its value (>_<)
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If you can live a more ordinary life than doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), that’s the best option.
If you can manage without taking on more papa-katsu, there’s no need to register again.
After meeting nearly 30 people, it’s a good idea to narrow them down to about one out of 30. You can be even more selective than you are now.
Whether you immerse yourself fully in the world of papa-katsu is entirely up to you.
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Whether you should do it or not is something only you can decide.
If you already have a monthly papa, why not stay registered, turn down offers from papas you don’t like, and continue only with the good ones?
I think it becomes exhausting because you force yourself to put up with things…
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Money matters, so keep saving as much as you can.
Even if you get a boyfriend or get married, keep your secret savings to yourself. First goal: 10 million yen.
If a guy seems off, cut him off right away.
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Is your monthly-arrangement papa trying to control you by telling you not to see anyone else? If not, and you’re comfortable with it both physically and emotionally, I think it’s okay to value new connections.
Set your dating type to B and go on dates with different men—it’ll help you further develop your feminine charm, too.
Since you’re about to enter the workforce, meeting all kinds of people could be useful as a learning experience and even help with job hunting. I’ve had dates that didn’t go well, and I’ve also learned from them and regretted not being better at conversation. If you want to meet people but aren’t getting any offers, there’s nothing wrong with registering again if you have the option. I hope you make some wonderful connections♪
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I feel like re-registering as a Type B would prevent any problems. What do you think?
You can gather a lot of information over a meal, so you should be able to filter people out. If you already have one generous papa (a male supporter), you should be able to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) at your own pace, so I don’t really understand why you’re hesitating.
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The IPs are different, but the writing style is similar to that of the person who kept posting questions obsessively.
It doesn’t seem like asking more questions will resolve anything. If you want to do it, just register again; if you don’t, simply leave things as they are.
If you really can’t decide, you might as well roll a die and decide whether to register again based on whether it lands on an even or odd number.
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Indeed, from what I hear from women, only about one in five to ten men is someone they feel might be worth continuing with.
I often hear stories about men who are seriously problematic or live in a fantasy world, but as a man myself, I feel the same way about women—only one in five to ten seems worth continuing with. So I accept that that’s just how it is.
A dating club is a place to look for a partner. If you’re thinking of entering an unwanted arrangement just to exchange your youth and time for money, I think you’re better off not doing it.
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