With a papa (a male supporter) I’m not physically compatible with, it genuinely hurts and feels really, really unpleasant when he licks my nipples, fingers me, or during penetration.
Even kissing is nothing but uncomfortable.
But with a papa I’m compatible with, it’s not like that at all...
Still, regardless of whether we’re physically compatible, men always seem happy and say things like, “Ahh, this feels so good! It really feels good!”
I’m always surprised, thinking, “Does this actually feel good...?”
Are men pretending too...?
But unlike marriage, if they feel they’re not compatible with a woman doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), wouldn’t they just cut her off and look for someone else right away?
Since we’ve been seeing each other for over a year, does that mean he feels we’re compatible?
For everyone else, what moments make you think you’re not physically compatible with someone?
To be able to enjoy sex with anyone, is it essential to train your imagination?
Right now, I wish I had the ability to convince myself that I’m being held by Mackenyu.
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Having an intimate relationship with someone you’re uncomfortable with sounds genuinely painful… If you have another papa who’s a better match, wouldn’t it be okay to end things with this one? Forcing yourself can really take a toll on you mentally.
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People often talk about having good physical chemistry, but I think that’s really only the case in a small number of situations.
It’s less about physical compatibility and more about whether the man is skilled or not.
Otherwise, wouldn’t that mean a skilled adult film actor has good physical chemistry with every woman?
To put it crudely, as long as a man is inside a hole, it feels pretty good for him anyway, lol.
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I can’t date someone if we’re not physically compatible.
Could it be that you’re choosing people based on their looks?
It’s the same as when a man chooses a woman for her appearance and ends up regretting it.
I’m surprised you lasted a whole year despite the lack of physical compatibility.
Isn’t this taking a toll on your mental health?
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After joining a dating club and talking with women, I realized that there seem to be quite a few male members who have the convenient ability to make themselves happy through their own fantasies.
Apparently, these men can use their partners as living sex toys without paying any attention to the other person, and enjoy themselves on their own.
So perhaps these men are enjoying sex by themselves, regardless of who they’re with.
Personally, I think “physical compatibility” refers to things caused by physical differences, such as having too great a height difference to comfortably do 69. If having your nipples licked or being fingered hurts, I think that simply means the other person is bad at it.
If someone can enjoy themselves with an unskilled partner by pretending they’re being held by a particular person, does that mean they’ve become the kind of person who’s good at satisfying themselves, like the men I mentioned at the beginning?
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If you’re compatible, you can understand each other without having to put anything into words.
If you’re not compatible, men may pretend too, so sometimes you may feel the need to say things like, “Ahh, that feels so good! It really feels amazing!” There are also cases where a man is actually telling the truth.
The fact that dating clubs can exist means there are a great many men who aren’t good at relationships—and also many who aren’t good at sex—so many men use money to obtain that sense of satisfaction and fulfillment. (If roughly 60% of women are at least fairly popular, I imagine the percentage of men who are popular is probably half that, or even less than a third.)
In that case, it also means there are many delusional men who can’t tell when a woman is pretending. That’s how the clubs continue to operate, while both sides’ goals are fulfilled.
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In this case, is it about physical compatibility?
I think it’s probably because you have a completely instinctive aversion to him...
I can’t tell whether the papa (male supporter) is impressive for not noticing, or whether you’re impressive for not letting him notice.
My honest reaction is: is there really any point in continuing under those circumstances...?
Sorry this doesn’t really answer your question.
Akari
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