I’ve had a papa for about two months, but during intimacy he tried to give me alcohol mouth-to-mouth.
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I can’t do that even with someone I like, so when I refused, he visibly lost interest, and that was the end of our arrangement.
It seems that papa was looking for a romantic relationship, and he made a lot of requests, like “Tell me you like me a lot” and “Message me more often.”
I was struggling financially, and the allowance was generous, so maybe I should have put up with it, but it was really hard in many ways.
I don’t have much experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I can’t compare him with other papas. Is this normal?
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Hmm, I’m okay with it with some people, but not with others (>_<)
I’ve passed candy mouth-to-mouth before, but I don’t think alcohol would work very well... lol
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Ace passionately kisses me with tongue and even asks to exchange saliva. I always get carried away by it, and I feel like my allowance has gone up as a result—so embarrassing.
I’m more than happy when women take the initiative like this, but I generally don’t do anything myself.
I’ll comply if someone wants me to choke her or asks for internal ejaculation, oral ejaculation, or a facial, but I never initiate anything. I’d only end up being disliked, and ultimately I’d be the one losing out.
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Personally, I really hate questions like, “Is this normal?”
For one thing, you’re asking this on a Q&A forum for dating clubs, and simply using one of those services isn’t considered “normal” by society at large anyway. And even if someone tells you it’s normal, does that mean you’re just supposed to accept it and put up with it?
As for mouth-to-mouth, there are papa supporters I’m comfortable doing it with because I like them, and others where I think, “Ugh, I don’t really want to.” No papa supporter has ever initiated it with me.
Some ask me to “let your saliva drip into my mouth” when I’m on top. I’m not particularly into it, but I do it for them.
There’s one person who gives me a higher allowance than the others, but he has a bedroom preference that I’m not really comfortable with. I refused, but he kept asking. So I said, “If you’re going to ask for that, the allowance is going to have to be double,” and he immediately replied, “That’s fine.” So I’ve ended up going along with his preference.
I’ve gotten used to it now, haha.
(Wait… by Dai’s logic, does that mean I’m a sex worker?!)
So basically, I think it’s fine to do something if you’re comfortable with it, and refuse if you’re not. Whether it’s “normal” is beside the point.
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After reading the question and answer, I realized that I don’t have any particularly distinctive preferences myself. I’m not sure whether I simply haven’t discovered them yet or just haven’t noticed them.
Even if I offered a higher allowance, I wouldn’t want that to mean asking her to put up with more things, so I feel I need to be careful not to do that.
I imagine it’s also about finding a balance between the allowance and your lifestyle, but forcing yourself won’t be sustainable and may only leave you with less, so please don’t push yourself too hard.
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You were putting up with it because the allowance was generous.
If money can make you tolerate all sorts of things, you’re basically a sex worker, so your feelings are perfectly normal for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
This is a classic case of forcing yourself too much and being unable to continue, so from now on, look for someone you can date within your own limits.
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In that situation, maybe you should accept it mouth-to-mouth for the moment, then return the favor by vomiting into his mouth. Even a woman can easily keep her arms locked around his neck if she clasps her hands with the other one. Just a few seconds of getting vomit all over his mouth should be enough. If you’re okay with ending things with that man, I think it’s fair to go that far. “Sorry, it just happened♡” should be excuse enough. Though realistically, most people couldn’t do it. You probably haven’t steeled yourself enough for that.
If you don’t want to end the relationship, you’ll just have to ride it out. Refusing is an option, but you’ll lose points and it’ll become something like losing by decision, so you should try to score some points somewhere. What about pretending to swallow what he gives you mouth-to-mouth, then scattering it on the floor when you get the chance? Bars in China had carpeted floors. Women would pretend to swallow the alcohol and then dump it on the floor. Since the carpet absorbed it, it wasn’t noticeable.
If you want to survive a tough situation, I recommend studying clinch work.
Taro
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> He tried to feed me alcohol mouth-to-mouth during the encounter.
It doesn’t seem all that unusual to me, but if you ask whether it’s normal, I’d say it probably isn’t.
You should never push yourself too hard just for the money. There are definitely men who won’t pressure you and will try to build a good relationship with you.
Don’t worry—look forward to the next one!
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That’s unfortunate…
If there are any activities you’re uncomfortable with, try telling them before the relationship deepens. That way, you may be able to continue without situations like this happening again.
I make a point of doing the same, and so far I’ve managed to avoid any trouble.
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I don’t do mouth-to-mouth, but you should date someone you’d feel comfortable enough with to do it.
You don’t have to force yourself to put up with anything.
If they’re good in bed, they could probably do something like that naturally…
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We live in an increasingly diverse world, so I feel that the idea of what’s “normal” has faded away.
If you think turning it down was a mistake, just make sure not to repeat that mistake next time. And if you feel that turning it down ultimately worked out for the best, then I think you should handle things the same way next time.
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