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May 28, 2022 06:13
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If you’re attractive and have people who want to continue seeing you, then I don’t think there’s a problem.
My papa (male supporters) tend to be either the genuinely-in-love type or men who don’t want the woman they’re seeing to date anyone else. So, except for one who said, “You must already be getting plenty of offers, but please put me at the bottom of the list,” I haven’t told them that I’m seeing multiple people.
I think it’s fine for everyone to choose the style that suits them best.
Marika
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If she’s someone I met here, she understands what this is about, so it’s not especially off-putting.
Just as women in papa-katsu aren’t looking to date older men, older men aren’t looking to date women in papa-katsu either, haha.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Most people would probably be put off. But I’m in no position to judge, so I’m not.
- Amateur, ultra-pure type
My ace: massage parlor girl A
- Looks-focused
Lounge girl PJA
- World-class boobs
PJB and massage parlor girl B
- Intimate technique-focused
Massage parlor girl C, a sexy actress, and an ideal oral specialist
- Golf partner
PJC
- A few papa-katsu women I’m not exclusive with but have continued seeing
- The woman who knows everything about my relationships with other women
My longtime girlfriend, PJD
It may sound extremely rude to put it this way, but I also date women in different “roles,” spreading things out so that no two have the same character.
I imagine the person asking the question probably chooses men in a similar way.
If your goal is to bring in more money, I wonder whether it’s necessary to aim for the “amateur, ultra-pure” type.
Among the women I date, my “ace” in that category receives by far the highest allowance—more than three times as much as the next highest.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’d like to keep it to around five boyfriends at most…
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re asking whether I’d back off, I would.
You must have an incredibly high sex drive and quite the impressive package.
That’s something else.
This is just my personal opinion, but I’d say having up to around five people total—your boyfriend, a sex friend, and papas—would probably be manageable.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
“You’re being pretty candid about it.
Since you used the past tense, it sounds like you’ve already decided whether that papa turned you off or not. If you’re okay with that particular papa, wouldn’t it be fine?”
Other
I think I also like the whole “keeping it hidden” aesthetic lol.
You know, the type who casually flashes a wallet stuffed with cash or a gold or black card at a hostess club lol. Watches and shoes too, I guess. It’s pretty cliché, but I know it works haha. Still, I find it a little embarrassing. And I’d rather not be seen counting money, so I like the idea of keeping it out of sight.
I’m sure some people take pride in how many women they’ve been with, but is it too much to want someone with the kind of style who keeps that hidden too?
Other
In the past, I knew a girl who had:
- a boyfriend (a career elite, but not much to look at)
- papa #1 and #2 (wealthy, average-looking)
- papa #3 (me)
- a friends-with-benefits partner (handsome)
So I don’t think everyone would be put off by that, but her boyfriend and papa #1 and #2 didn’t seem to know about the others, so I do think some people are better off not being told.
(I don’t know what the friends-with-benefits partner thought.)
Personally, as long as I’m attracted to her and enjoy spending time with her, I’m fine. So if that papa is okay with it now, I think it should be fine.
👨 Male
Universe member
You must be incredibly attractive and popular.
With my profile, I wouldn’t stand a chance against the other men, so I don’t think you’d be interested in me.
So I’ll bow out and start looking for a woman who might still be willing to see someone like me instead. 😢
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Everyone has their own opinions, but I’m seeing a woman who has a boyfriend and several friends-with-benefits. During the time we’ve been together, both her boyfriend and her FWB partners have changed several times.
What do I think of it? It’s interesting.
That said, college students seem kind of boring.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I hope my daughter grows up to be like that too.
She must be popular, so I hope she keeps selecting only the good ones. Save the money and don’t tell your boyfriend. Even after you get married, keep it as a secret stash.