I’ve been thinking about why “subtly disparaging questions,” like the one at https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/13213, get posted instead of so-called “hidden A” posts.
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① They want the papa (male supporter) in question to see it
② They want to put down the papa-katsu girl who’s dating him
③ It’s just a rant
④ They’re killing time by writing fiction
① could be someone taking revenge on a papa who cut them off.
② For example, maybe the papa said, “〇-chan falls asleep looking so comfortable in my arms for about an hour and a half. Unlike you—you start getting ready to leave as soon as we’re done,” and that really got under her skin.
③ They’re simply idiots who haven’t considered the possibility that the papa might read this question box.
④ It’s based on something they read on Twitter or somewhere else.
Can anyone think of any other possibilities? (←That’s the question.)
By Mac
👤Asked byGuest👨GenderMale🎂60s👑Universe male member
For the first time in ages, I stopped by a 24-hour Yoshinoya in the middle of the night. Before COVID, it used to be pretty packed even at this hour, but there wasn’t a single customer in there. I even found myself asking, “Are you open for dine-in?” because I wondered if they were only doing takeout now… Things have really changed.
Umm, well… this isn’t so much a hate question as…
> He sleeps for an hour and a half after, snoring away.
> I just want to go home.
> And because he insists on putting my arm around him, I can’t do anything during that time.
That honestly sounds like a pretty common scene. I sleep too, and the girls often sleep for an hour or two as well.
So I’m less surprised than genuinely baffled that she puts up with it for so long despite not being able to sleep herself. (Assuming she really isn’t on her phone??)
She could just wake him up and say, “Let’s go somewhere.”
As for which category this answer falls into:
I often sleep for an hour or two myself, waking up several times to check how the woman is sleeping, so I guess this is just short of being a hate question.
Oh, while I was slowly eating and writing this answer, two customers came in! Oh, and now another pair…
Huh? A tiny bug, just a few millimeters long, even flew onto my phone screen…
And on my way home, I thought:
When it’s quiet, the staff are incredibly nice.
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I might be #3, too.
The women registered with dating clubs are surprisingly accomplished as well, so I was thinking there might also be a #9 from Shunkashutō-san: “Everyone, please understand!”
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I think it’s a combination of #1 and #3.
Some people may not be able to talk face-to-face or communicate well, or the other person may simply be impossible to reason with. Maybe they’re just taking out their pent-up frustration somewhere.
Even if they get found out, they probably plan to deny everything when the time comes, and if it becomes too much trouble, they can just cut ties. So I don’t think it’s really a problem if the person happens to see this site, lol.
It feels like a collection of complaints along the lines of, “My husband has this awful habit…” There are probably also posts where people commiserate with each other, like, “You’ve got it tough too, huh?” Maybe that’s why they’re getting likes on their answers, lol.
Tough luck, huh? lol
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⑦ I thought it was about protecting themselves by putting the other person down.
And also:
⑧ They want attention.
追加 after reading Mac’s answer:
The reasons I answer questions here are:
① Contributing to the community is rewarded in some way.
② Answering helps me train my thinking and reassess myself.
③ It expands my social circle, including through reverse offers.
Likewise, I think people are grown adults and should think and decide for themselves.
Besides, far too many people come here with selfish requests that aren’t even real problems—wanting this and that without making any effort themselves.
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I think #4 might be the case too (lol).
I feel like they might actually be a good person, so I reply when I’m not too tired to deal with it "(∩>ω<∩)"
#6 might just be wishful thinking, though.
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I’d say ① and ③…
“I’m putting up with so much—please understand me.”
Venting to relieve stress, maybe…
Mac mentioned that putting things into words makes them easier to remember, so I think it only creates an even more vicious cycle. But since she can’t talk to anyone about this kind of activity, maybe she just wants someone to listen.
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I think it was 3 and 4.
My previous papa slept soundly too, while I looked at Instagram or watched YouTube…
Apparently, the person who recently made me an offer often checks this Q&A box to learn more…
He surely doesn’t realize I’m Ayase Nana♡, does he?
LOL.
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⑤ I want someone to praise me
I want someone to tell me I’m doing a good job for working hard without complaining, even when I don’t want to.
I can’t say this to my papa (a male supporter), and there’s no one else I can talk to, so I feel like I could keep going if someone here told me, “You’re really doing your best.” I’m actually a hard worker.
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I don’t have the skill to say it directly, and I can’t say it because I’m getting paid.
Deep down, I hate you this much—figure it out.
I’m just taking out my frustration on you because I have nowhere else to vent.
Akari
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A hybrid of 3 and 4—I’d be happy if it led from 3 to 1.
Basically, it’s like saying, “If you read this, great. Figure it out, you idiot.”
I can’t think of anything else.
Marika
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