I think it’s fine as long as the other person is okay with it. Even if it isn’t considered typical, if they’re okay with it and you have no issue either, then you’re simply incredibly compatible.
By the way, I agree with Marika. She’d probably be shocked if the woman had to pay for her own breakfast. I’d love to try it once. How about making it a prank for Universe’s YouTube channel? Something like, “I Met Mac-san and It Turned into 3P in Four Seconds” might work too. No, I’m kidding—I’m truly sorry（笑）
On the other hand, once when I couldn’t get up early, I kicked out a girl who kept pestering me for food like an early-rising cat, saying, “You can use my meal voucher too, so go ahead and eat plenty for two by yourself.” She was a female competitive eater, so even two people’s worth probably wouldn’t have been enough. I think it was an all-you-can-eat buffet anyway, where you could take as much as you wanted once you got in. In the end, she seemed satisfied. I do feel bad that, from the hotel’s perspective, I unleashed a beast guaranteed to cause a huge loss.
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I’d be surprised if I had to pay for breakfast myself after staying overnight, haha.
Sometimes we meet up after dinner because he has a business meal that evening. There are also times when I have a dinner engagement and end up running late.
I think it shouldn’t be a problem as long as you mention it beforehand.
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Everyone’s different, so I’m not sure what “normal” is, but whenever we’ve stayed overnight, we’ve had dinner together.
Also, of course, I cover all the expenses while we’re seeing each other.
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I don’t think there’s a problem as long as the arrangement works well for both of you, whatever the style may be.
That said, if he assumes you’ll have dinner together and skips eating beforehand, he might wonder, “Aren’t we having dinner?” So it would probably be a good idea to clarify that in advance as well.
If you’ve already met several times, he probably understands how things work, so I think you should be fine.
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I think that’s fine, but just to be safe, it might be good to add something like, “I have to have dinner with a client.”
Otherwise, they might wonder why dinner isn’t included.
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Normally, you’d probably have dinner together too.
That’s certainly an option, but if you both want to be in top shape for the evening, it also makes sense to prepare accordingly.
In that case, you could save the special meal for lunch or dinner the next day, depending on the nature of your relationship…
If she wants to enjoy both intimate time and a meal, I’d recommend doing them on separate nights. That way, both can be satisfying. Of course, the papa (a male supporter) needs to have a palate refined enough to appreciate the difference.
Having a lavish meal on the same day as an intense adult relationship (intimate) feels like a bit of a waste.
But if there’s no dinner and only breakfast, that feels far too much like a transactional relationship.
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