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May 15, 2022 11:38
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I think any reason is fine! I’ll work hard so I can get there soon too, haha.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re free to use your allowance for whatever you want.
Quite a few women work regular part-time jobs or full-time jobs, and use papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to cover beauty-related expenses.
That’s a sensible use of the money, and it leaves a good impression.
Other
For me, the first filter is appearance, and the second is the staff member’s comments, including the reason for registering, like in this question.
If two women are about equally attractive based on the first filter, I’ll make an offer to the one whose staff comments give me a better impression.
I can’t speak for other men, but I feel there are probably quite a few people who view things this way.
So I don’t think someone would be chosen based solely on their reason for registering, but it does serve as one factor in the decision, so I think it’s somewhat important.
I think something along the lines of what Aya suggested would work well.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I feel like the most common reasons for starting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are “beauty treatments” or “paying off student loans.”
It’s probably safest to just say you’re paying off student loans. I personally don’t mind the beauty-treatment reason at all, but some papas (male supporters) might not be into it.
Sending money to a younger brother or sister is touching, too. I’m a sucker for this kind of story, haha...
Other
Everyone has their own reasons, but I think about half of men don’t really understand wanting to spend money on beauty… It can come across as superficial, and if you phrase it poorly, they may wonder, “Isn’t there anything else you want to work toward?” and end up disliking you. So I wouldn’t recommend making that your main reason.
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Other
Everyone has their own reasons, so I think any reason is fine. Some papas (male supporters) may ask, “Why did you start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?” while others won’t. Just be prepared in case they ask, and make sure you’re ready to state your preference if they ask, “How much allowance are you looking for?”
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think any reason is fine.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Any reason is fine, as long as you’re interested.
That kind of attitude toward money isn’t necessarily a bad thing, either.
For both men and women, some place a lot of importance on money, while others don’t.
For men:
- Those who want to be treated and those who don’t
- Those who want to receive hospitality and those who want to provide it
- Those who want to wield the power of money and those who don’t
- Those who place more weight on an adult relationship (intimate) and those who prioritize dating
- Those who want to date many people and those who prefer one person or a small number of partners
For women:
- Those who want to entertain and those who don’t
- Those who can put up with things and those who don’t want to be overly considerate
- Those who don’t show their true selves and those who want to be honest, relaxed, and comfortable
- Those who find the power of money attractive and those who feel uncomfortable with it
- Those who don’t place much importance on dinner dates and those who care about dining together
- Those who want multiple partners and those who prefer to date just one person
- Those who want to keep receiving new offers and those who take a break or leave once they find someone they want to continue seeing
There are all kinds of people, with different preferences regarding how often to meet, what kind of relationship they want, their goals, and even what they like to eat.
Finding someone who’s a good match for you may be one of the luckiest and best things that can happen.