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May 7, 2022 23:19
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I'm married and have young children, so the time I can go out on dates is limited.
I'd like to get started, but would that be difficult?
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I’m Misa, a female member.
Nice to meet you, everyone. I look forward to getting to know you all.
I was anxious at first and wasn’t sure whether I should even go to the interview. But the staff were very kind from the moment I arrived.
Even after joining, they’ve been incredibly supportive and always take the time to listen, which has helped me a lot.
There are also people who invite me to meet during the day, so why not try going for an interview first?
I’m glad I took the courage to do it—I’ve had some wonderful encounters.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Why not try a men’s esthetics salon?
Or do both a men’s esthetics salon and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) at the same time.
At men’s esthetics salons, it’s normal to shave five years off your age, so being in your 30s is no problem. Being married isn’t a disadvantage either.
And you can find a papa (a male supporter) that way, too.
*I was flirting with another star therapist at a men’s esthetics salon just yesterday and having some fun.
Other
Some people specify that they’re only available during the daytime, so I think there’s still a certain level of demand if you pass the interview.
Personally, unless someone is really my type, I don’t make offers to people with strict time constraints. But I feel that most people probably think the same way.
Other
There are men who will work around your schedule.
One thing to be careful about: many men will try to go without protection, so please be cautious.
This has been covered many times in past Q&As, so try searching the question box for what you want to know.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re interested in getting started, you should definitely go to the interview.
You may receive fewer offers, but that likely means you’ll value each connection more.
Other
Good evening♪ Nice to meet you♪
I also asked a lot of questions here when I was deciding whether to join. I knew I should just go to the interview and see how it went, but…I was still really nervous.
I’m not sure whether you’re in a rural area or Tokyo, but when you say you have young children, do you mean preschoolers or elementary-school age and up? If they’re elementary-school age or older, you may be less likely to have to cancel because of a sudden fever, so it might be fairly manageable.
I also go to bed early, and since I live outside Tokyo, I’m more of a daytime person—I like to wrap things up by 5 p.m. after factoring in travel time ₍ᐢ⑅•ᴗ•⑅ᐢ₎♡ Apparently, there are quite a few male members who prefer daytime meetings too.
Since you mentioned that you’re married, you may want to think carefully about whether you’d be comfortable with it emotionally (*_ _).
I think it would be a good idea to ask them about everything during the interview (*^^*)
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Dating only during weekday daytime hours…
To put it another way, quite a few women can only go on dates during the day on weekdays.
You won’t receive offers from men who can only meet at night, so I do think you’ll be at a slight disadvantage because of that.
Even so, more than half of men can meet during the day. And if they’re genuinely interested in a woman, I feel that over 70% of them would be able to arrange a daytime date.
If you’re interested in getting started, I think it would be a good idea to come in for an interview.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Even assuming your child is at daycare from around 1 to 5 p.m. on weekdays, if you have an appearance that appeals to men—such as a beautiful or cute face, a good figure, and an overall attractive look—you should be in demand and receive offers.
Women like that do come along from time to time.
Other
I think you should go to the interview. There’s no need to worry!
You’re free to attend the interview, and what happens after that is up to you.
Since you have a young child, of course your child should come first, but I’m sure there are men who will understand your situation. I’d recommend doing this only within what you’re comfortable with!
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re unsure, you should go to the interview. You may face more challenges than other girls, but there’s still a chance.
Also, don’t forget that they’re accommodating you by agreeing to terms with those kinds of restrictions.
The moment you start taking that for granted, they’ll lose interest and pull away.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think whether it’s difficult depends on whether you’re the kind of person men would want to make an offer to.
If they really want to meet you, there should be men who are willing to work around your schedule.