It looks like my papa went through my bag while I was showering…
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He seemed flustered when I opened the bathroom door. I’ve been wondering whether I should ask, “Were you looking through my bag?” But I didn’t want to create an uncomfortable atmosphere, so in the end, I pretended nothing had happened and we wrapped things up as usual.
Regardless of whether it’s a man or a woman, what’s the right way to handle it if the other person is looking through your things?
By the way, my ID and money weren’t stolen. Even if they looked at my phone, it’s password-protected.
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There’s no way sex can be enjoyable with someone you don’t trust.
The moment I found out that they were the kind of person who would do something like that, I’d probably end things.
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If you think they were looking through the contents of your bag, then there’s really nothing to do but end things.
Unless they were simply wandering around, trying to figure out where to put the condoms—and got surprised because things happened sooner than expected…
If you assume the best, you’d think no one would look inside someone else’s bag, and you really can’t imagine what their purpose or reason would be. Unless you know for sure, I don’t think you need to worry about it too much.
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Whether it makes things awkward or not, I always ask to make sure. Even if he denies it, I press him firmly one more time.
If he admits it, I’ll let it slide once—but I’ll keep pressing him about why he was snooping. And continuing the arrangement may be difficult.
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I wouldn’t say anything in the moment—I’d just gradually distance myself.
I’ve had my belongings looked through several times too, so I’m pretty careful about it (´・ω・｀)
For starters, either don’t carry things like your wallet, smartphone, or anything that reveals your real name unless necessary, or keep them with you whenever you’re alone.
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Basically, I think he’s trying to steal your personal information.
Your real name, address, and, if you have a monthly arrangement, the nearest station to your home or workplace. It also seems possible that he may have already seen some of this information.
If you’re seeing other men as well, I’d recommend simply fading out of contact with someone like this, since he could be dangerous. Don’t contact him or meet him again.
If you can’t do that right away, be extra careful not to let your personal information get exposed.
For example, take only your IC transit pass into the bathroom—it won’t break even if it gets wet—and leave all other identification at home when you meet him. You could also keep it in a locked container so he can’t look inside.
In any case, don’t let your guard down.
Naturally, I’d also expect someone like this to set up hidden cameras, so search online to learn what kinds of hidden cameras exist and carefully check whether there’s anything like that around you.
He’s clearly dangerous, so if you have the option, I think it’s best not to meet him.
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Nothing was stolen…
What was stolen was your personal information.
Assume that your address and real name have been exposed, and be careful of stalkers as well.
Whenever you go to the bathroom, make sure to take your belongings right with you. No matter how financially comfortable someone may be, there are still people with sticky fingers. Please be careful.
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