I recently met a man for the first time, and we’re planning to have an adult relationship next time.
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He offered an allowance of 50,000 yen, and I agreed, but to be honest, I’m not very good in bed.
I want him to like me even a little, so I’m considering not accepting the allowance, saying I couldn’t satisfy him. (Of course, I’ll still do my best and won’t take it easy.)
How would a man feel if I turned down the allowance?
Or would it be better to accept the full 50,000 yen and do my best?
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Make sure you receive an allowance here. Otherwise, they may assume you don’t need one going forward, which could make things difficult later. So be sure to get paid properly.
Not every man is looking for experience or technique. Some are really attracted to that innocence.
As long as you receive your allowance and do your best in the adult relationship (intimate), I think you’ll be fine.
Make sure to react appropriately:
If he kisses you, respond properly.
Give him oral sex.
Hug him during intimacy, putting your arms around his shoulders or waist.
Make some sounds when you’re enjoying it.
And so on.
If you watch his reactions and do things he seems to enjoy, you’ll probably be fine.
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I don’t decide whether to give an allowance based on how good or bad things were, and I haven’t set a specific amount either, so I think you should accept it. Personally, I’d avoid people who don’t offer an allowance.
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I used to struggle a lot because I wasn’t comfortable accepting an allowance either, but I recently realized that refusing it can actually come across as rude. So now I gratefully accept it and use it wisely (*^^*)
I think he’ll find it cute that you worry and try so hard like that "(∩>ω<∩)"♡ and will probably treat you very well♪
Other than that, you can just let him show you how♡
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For him, the allowance he gives you the first time you go to a hotel together likely also means, “Thank you for overcoming the hurdle of having your first adult relationship with me.” So accepting it the first time would be the natural thing to do.
From the second time onward, speaking bluntly, depending on his frustrations—such as feeling that you put in less effort than the first time, becoming convinced that you were only doing it reluctantly, or feeling that you still haven’t grown closer no matter how many times you meet—he may think, “I don’t want to give her 50,000 yen.” This isn’t specific to you. Still, when you’re together for the first time, it’s safest to accept it.
After that, I think he’d be pleased if you showed your appreciation and said, “I want to keep working on this and get better, so I’d love for you to teach me various things.”
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Refusing the allowance that was agreed upon beforehand could make things complicated, so I think you should accept it.
It might be best to respond positively so that he can sense your desire to be liked and make a good impression. There aren’t many women who are great at sex from the very first time they meet someone. Everyone enjoys different things, so I think you should do your best while watching his reactions or asking what he would like you to do.
This isn’t an adult entertainment venue but a dating club, so I believe men use it to pursue a relationship, not simply to receive sexual services. Of course, it’s better when the sex with someone you’re dating is good, but isn’t your willingness to genuinely engage with the other person more important than sexual technique?
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