I’m really struggling because I have such bad luck with men. I can’t cry because I’m out in public, but once again, someone stood me up today.
I don’t think I’ve done anything wrong.
Is there something different about me compared with ordinary women?
A woman at the salon I go to once told me I have an aura of the night.
She said I need to return to being a person of the daytime.
Why is that?
There simply aren’t that many genuinely great men out there, so I think it’s better to clarify what you’re really looking for in a man.
I know I’m in no position to sound so high and mighty, but I don’t think there are all that many men who would actually stand you up.
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It’s not clear from your post whether you work in the nightlife industry. Unfortunately, since your question is so vague, there isn’t really enough information to offer any advice.
For example, you say, “Someone who will clearly tell me…”—tell you what? Because the wording is so vague, it’s difficult to understand. Unless you explain, as much as you’re comfortable sharing, what happened with this man and what kind of person he is, everyone here will probably only be able to give vague, generic answers that could apply to anyone.
I also get the feeling that this may be part of why men end up treating you carelessly. I mean this kindly, but you should try to become a little more perceptive.
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If you met them through Universe Club, it’s an allowance-based relationship, so I don’t think they’d simply use you and discard you.
But since you met this person elsewhere—and the esthetician even said you gave off a “nightlife” vibe—that may be part of the reason as well.
Why not keep your night job while also trying a daytime job?
If you can keep that up for over a year, you may start to understand what’s going on.
I think it would be good to work five days a week, from morning until evening, doing anything at all.
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Are you okay? (´･ ･`) I would never stand someone up if I really liked them, so maybe he just wasn’t that into you… Or perhaps he’s simply extremely busy!
Maybe it’s not that you have bad luck with men, but that you’re not very good at judging them? (>_<)
As for being told you have a “nightlife vibe,” maybe they were judging you based on your appearance. There are plenty of gyaru who are actually very serious and down-to-earth, though.
I hope you meet a kind, reliable, and respectable boyfriend next time☆
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Is it because you have a boyfriend?
I don’t know you, so I can’t say what makes you different from other people. Besides, it’s perfectly normal for everyone to be different, so I don’t think that’s the reason.
Some people who work in the nightlife industry have boyfriends, too, so I don’t think it’s about that.
I’m happy even without a boyfriend. When you don’t have one, you can spend more time on yourself, which can be a good thing. Why not try living without a man in your life for a while?
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