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I’m cutting things off with someone.

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If you send one final message before ending things, which do you dislike more: being blocked without waiting for a reply, or being left on read? Which would you prefer?
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I hate being blocked with a “Thank you for everything. Goodbye.” Because then I don’t get the chance to express my own gratitude or say anything at all.
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Don’t make another arrangement with him. Send a quick message thanking him, then block him—that’s probably the safest approach. If you send something spiteful, he may hold a grudge and retaliate. Part ways peacefully and cleanly, then move on to the next one.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
They feel the same way. Not just one thing—about a hundred… Relationships between men and women are entirely your own responsibility.
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Wouldn’t it be better to just quietly block them rather than say something unnecessary and risk leaving a bad impression? I think they’d understand.
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I think it depends on what that last message says. They might not even reply, and being blocked or left on read probably wouldn’t make much difference. What matters is probably the message you sent right before that.
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Even if you cut me off, it wouldn’t really hurt me, so I think you should just do whatever you like. Marika
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Are you saying you want to intentionally make them feel hurt? I’m already devastated about being cut off, so please at least let me send one last message saying, “I’m sorry, and thank you for everything” 😭
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I wouldn’t know, since I’ve never been dropped. I don’t really see much difference between being blocked and being left on read. Generally, as Maezawa-san mentioned, I think it’s better to end things amicably, since that tends to avoid trouble later on.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Either is fine, but I think it’s better not to complain to them or end things on bad terms. Even if they weren’t a good match, it’s more gracious to include something like: “Thank you for everything up to now.”
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