Do you ever feel empty while doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? I’d like to hear about your experiences.
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For me, even though I know I can’t have a genuine romantic relationship, I feel empty whenever I sense how transactional the woman is.
Even so, it hasn’t gotten to the point where I want to quit papa-katsu.
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I’m not looking for romantic feelings in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
When I hit it off with a woman, I look forward to seeing her again soon. If things come to an end, I simply look for someone new.
That’s why it always feels fresh, and there’s nothing about it that leaves me feeling empty.
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Is it really enjoyable dating a woman you chose solely based on her looks and having a transactional relationship with her?
Ah, so that’s why you say it feels empty.
Among the many female members, there’s bound to be someone who’s a good match for you.
I think you should keep making offers patiently.
Marika
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At the moment, I wouldn’t say I feel empty—or rather, it may be more accurate to say I don’t really know what “feeling empty” is supposed to feel like.
I may not experience that feeling in other relationships either.
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I’m not looking for true love, so I don’t feel empty about it.
I call myself a lucky charm for women, so when two of my monthly partners got married and we could no longer see each other, I sent them both off with my blessing. It was a strange feeling—mostly happiness for them, with a little sadness mixed in.
Since every goodbye is a new encounter, I’ll make plenty more offers and look for someone even better.
Still, I occasionally find myself thinking, “I really enjoyed being intimate with her.”
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Sometimes I see an ordinary family with kids walking around, all smiles, and think, “That looks nice… but I guess I’ll never be on that side of life.”
I’m not sure if I’d call it emptiness, though.
I’m fulfilled with my life as it is now, and I live each day thinking, “I’m happy.”
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I’ve never felt empty because of the men I meet or papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) itself.
If anything, I feel a little sad—not exactly empty—when I think about my own shortcomings or wonder why an arrangement didn’t continue. It makes me realize I still have a long way to go and need to become more appealing.
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The other person’s attitude is a reflection of your own.
So saying you feel empty is missing the point. It’s your way of living and your attitude that are the problem—you’re simply being seen through.
Questioner, if you’re handing over money but still aren’t welcomed, of course that feels empty.
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Don’t say that! lol
If you deny the world of “illusion”
or suddenly start getting all realistic,
you’ll never be able to enjoy life.
Even though papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is based on “illusion,”
it has a real side too—the fact that you can genuinely enjoy your dates.
That’s what makes it so wonderful, don’t you think?
If you went to Disneyland or DisneySea
and said, “They’re just people in costumes,”
that would ruin everything.
Doesn’t your happiness depend on whether you call it
“a land of dreams and magic”
or “a land of reality and deception”?
Even if “illusion” is the premise,
I think life is more enjoyable because you don’t put it into words—you can be “deceived” and still feel happy.
Papa-katsu is the same.
It’s me
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