It’s okay. A large age gap between a man and a woman—like that between a father and daughter—is naturally going to feel mismatched, more so than you might think.
If it bothers you, make offers to people in your own age group.
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Since we’re obviously not equals, I don’t pay any attention to that when making an offer.
That said, I’m extremely careful when we’re on a date. We never walk around in public, and I always book a private dining room.
We travel to the hotel separately and leave separately as well. I take every possible precaution to make sure none of her female acquaintances find out she’s doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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I never really cared whether we looked like a good match physically. We’re so far apart in age that we wouldn’t look balanced anyway, haha.
What mattered more was whether I thought we could actually get along, based on her comments and so on, when considering a match. In the end, I went through everything from having my offers turned down to suspecting someone of misrepresenting her dating preferences. It only worked out after the club introduced us, haha.
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“Not a good match”...? I mean, can a much older gentleman really be considered a match for a woman over 18 in the first place? The age gap varies from person to person, of course.
So if that’s something you’re worried about, I don’t really see the point of joining a dating club. If you mean whether he’s handsome... that really depends on the individual. I don’t care about that. What matters is whether we enjoy spending time together.
By the way, the men I was introduced to through SALON were all the kind of men who probably wouldn’t have any trouble meeting women! They were also younger than my ex-boyfriends!
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