I have a slight question about the staff member’s response, “I don’t understand why you’re making an offer to a Type B woman,” to this question. If the person the poster is meeting is Type B, does that mean it’s inappropriate to tell a Type B woman from the first meeting that you’re hinting at inviting her to an adult relationship (intimate) next time? Are you saying that invitations to an adult relationship (intimate) with a Type B woman should only be made from the second meeting onward, when you feel that you’re a good match?

I think it would be helpful to consider why you want to make an offer to a Type B woman, and also why women choose Type B. > Are you saying that it’s wrong to tell a Type B woman from the first meeting that you’re hinting at inviting her to an adult relationship next time? The way you phrased it is perfectly fine. It’s the way 12713 phrased it that isn’t. You can tell at a glance that your attitudes toward women are completely different. 12713 clearly has the attitude of, “I’m the one in charge,” don’t you think? You can also sense the domineering tone of “You’d better be intimate on the second date,” rather than sometime after the second date. He hasn’t given any thought to whether the woman might be unsure. But 12748—I’ll refer to this questioner as 12748 so we don’t get confused about which person I mean—says he would hint at it. Although he says “hint,” in reality, I assume he would feel things out during the conversation, and if it seemed promising, ask directly, “Would it be okay to go to a hotel next time?” I think that’s perfectly fine. But if the conversation with the woman isn’t going well, or she still doesn’t think highly of you, and you’re only pretending to be there for the meeting while worrying solely about next time—if your attitude is basically, “I want to be intimate, so just tell me whether you’ll comply or not”— then is there any point in making an offer to a Type B woman? If you leave out the part about enjoying the conversation and the time spent getting to know and wooing the other person, and all you care about is whether you can be intimate next time, then why not make an offer to a Type C or D woman from the start? 12713 might even be an unwelcome man to a Type C woman. Perhaps making an offer to a Type D woman would be better, since their objectives may align more closely. Men want intimacy, and women want money. That may be what it ultimately comes down to, but if that’s all there is to it, you could just go to a brothel. Keeping in mind once again that a dating club is different from the sex industry, and then considering which type of woman to date and how to build that relationship— 12713 seems like someone who doesn’t understand the point of making an offer to a Type B woman, while 12748 seems to understand Type B women. I hope you’ll continue pursuing this without being misled by strange information.

I’ve learned from the women I’m seeing and from the questions here that there are quite a few idiots who think that, just because they’re a Type B and made it to a second date, an adult relationship (intimate) is guaranteed—and others who think that, as a Type C, they can have an adult relationship regardless of the chemistry. There’s nothing wrong with hinting at an adult relationship, but it’s also true that doing so lowers the chances of one happening. And if people think, “Isn’t that basically sex work?” it’s hard to blame them, given the way some people act and talk. Even a pseudo-romantic relationship is still a relationship. If you think of it like a normal relationship, hardly anyone would say, “Let’s have sex,” when there’s no chemistry and neither person really feels that way. So I think Ayase Nana and Kamihikōki-san are exactly right.

Based on that question, it would be fine if she were Type C, but not if she were Type B. I wondered the same thing—“Why?” With Type B, there’s no need to hint at it in the first place. Whether it’s the first date, the second, or after you’ve met several times, it should happen naturally when you’re both genuinely getting along—not through talk of an adult relationship or negotiations, but in a natural flow. “Can we do it? Is it okay? Will it happen? Which is it?” If you’re that worried about it, you don’t need to make an offer to a Type B in the first place.

For a Type B, you should only suggest an adult relationship (intimate) after the second meeting, once you feel you’re compatible. I believe that’s the correct understanding. With a Type C, you may invite her to an adult relationship (intimate) that same day, but she can still decline if you don’t click. Some men seem to mistakenly believe that women won’t turn them down in this situation. I really want them to understand this properly.