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Mar 21, 2022 14:20
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I feel so happy to be cherished this much.
Sorry for the bragging!
Now, to the main point: I’ve already told my papa that I’m getting married, and we’ve agreed to continue seeing each other after the wedding, although probably less frequently.
Since my wedding is coming up, I’d like to wear the jewelry he gave me. I was planning to rent the jewelry for my neck and ears, but since I already have these beautiful pieces my papa bought for me, I’d really like to wear them.
So I’m struggling with what to tell my fiancé.
I’d like to say that my parents gave them to me, but I’m very close with my parents, so…
What could I say to make him believe me?
3 answers
Other
If you truly value your husband, don’t wear it. If it’s a favorite, you can wear it as much as you like in private—but at your wedding, please put your husband first. (^○^) Wishing you both every happiness! ☆
Other
There’s really no excuse that would make sense…
Even if you said it was from a friend, something that expensive would be impossible to explain away.
Maybe say you bought it cheaply at a secondhand shop or on Mercari.
I wonder how she feels about wearing something from her papa (a male supporter) at her wedding. Couldn’t she show a little consideration for the man who’ll be her husband, at least for that one day?
Has she never thought about what would happen if her future husband found out? If she has a friend who knows about it, I’m sure the truth would come out quickly. If she truly hasn’t told anyone and doesn’t plan to tell anyone about doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), maybe she can somehow get away with it…
Still, it’s wonderful that your papa gave you such a lovely gift and was so thoughtful! That’s the dream for papa-katsu girls, isn’t it? I really do think that part is wonderful!
Other
Hmm… personally, I don’t think wearing jewelry from your papa (a male supporter) at your wedding is a good idea. Your future husband knows nothing about it, so you shouldn’t do anything that could potentially cause trouble.