↓I’m honestly impressed that you don’t mind being intimate with old guys.
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The other day, I got an offer from a 36-year-old, but he was way too old for me and I seriously couldn’t deal with it. What’s wrong with me…?
I wanted the allowance, so I went through with it for the time being, but then I blocked him.
Maybe papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) just isn’t for me. I’m turning 19 next month, so maybe I’ll mature a little and become okay with it…
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Wow—36? I think that’s young Σ( ˙꒳˙ )!
You’re 19? That’s surprising too!!
At 19, he might look like an old guy to you (>_<)
Your perspective will keep changing more and more as you get older♪
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When I was 18, I couldn’t even imagine dating men ten years older—28 and up—since everyone around me only dated people their own age, and I couldn’t picture becoming close with someone older in the first place. So I really think you’re doing an amazing job. That’s impressive.
But if you don’t like it, as I mentioned in my previous answer, I think you should quit.
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If you’re turning 19 next month, that means you were born in April 2003, so you’re currently a high school senior.
If this is through Universe Club, then that’s a lie.
Is this compensated dating arranged through Twitter?
If you were born on April 1, 2003, I apologize.
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Good evening. I’m an older guy myself.
I’m in roughly the same age group as you, maybe just a little older. I didn’t initially intend to draw lines based on age, but after meeting several people and realizing we weren’t looking for the same things, I stopped making offers to women in that age group after joining the club.
So far, even after reading the women’s profile comments and the staff comments, no one has really stood out to me.
I get the feeling you may also be looking for something different, so perhaps it would be better to change the type of people you’re targeting—or quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
You’re probably attractive and still young, so I’m sure you’ll receive offers, but I don’t think you should force yourself. Even if you manage to convince yourself it’s okay, it might become painful again later.
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Yes, I respect you.
This is just my impression, but I think that after entering the workforce, meeting more older men, and experiencing a relationship with a young boyfriend around your age, some people may compare the two and find they’re okay with older men, while others realize it’s still not for them.
Since it doesn’t seem right for you at the moment, why not take a break, work toward becoming financially independent, and reconsider it later?
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At 36, he may be considered an older guy… but in the club, I’d say he’s actually on the younger side.
Why not try meeting men in their 70s or 80s here?
She’s only 18… Am I the only one who feels she shouldn’t push herself so hard with papa-katsu?
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It’s simply because you weren’t compatible with the man you met（笑）
If you feel it’s not going to work, I recommend turning him down. Dating isn’t something you should force yourself into. Please make sure it’s enjoyable and mutually beneficial for both of you.
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