My monthly arrangement has canceled on me four times in a row. The reasons were feeling unwell and work-related issues.
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Today was the fourth last-minute cancellation. Until then, I had been swallowing my feelings, putting on a smile, and saying, “It’s okay! Hang in there! Let’s meet another day.”
He also seemed genuinely sorry, and since he wanted to see me again, he would suggest another day whenever we had to cancel.
However, today was the fourth last-minute cancellation—and I had taken the day off work because we had plans—so I finally lost my temper.
He apologized, but somehow I just couldn’t forgive him. I told him that if he really felt bad, he should send me the allowance. Then he said, “I guess I’ll just give up, then.”
I’m not in the wrong here, am I? This is only fair, right?
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To put it bluntly, you were being treated as someone they could take lightly—someone they could cancel on at the last minute without much consequence.
Men will do everything they can to avoid a last-minute cancellation when they want to continue seeing a woman.
If you were planning to end things anyway, there was nothing wrong with getting angry. That said, asking him to send you money was pointless…
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Maybe women are used to last-minute cancellations, but for men, it’s something that happens once in a lifetime at most—or only a few times.
So next time, just give up after one cancellation.
Men and women think differently.
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You’re not in the wrong here.
If you went out of your way to take time off work, it’s only fair to expect compensation roughly equal to what you would have earned that day. An apology alone doesn’t make everything okay.
Tell the staff member exactly who it was and that they’ve canceled on you at the last minute four times. Also tell them they won’t compensate you for the income you lost by taking time off work.
Some people really are incredibly self-centered.
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I don’t think it’s unreasonable.
There’s such a thing as a cancellation fee. If you cancel at the last minute and inconvenience the other person, some people believe you should compensate them for the loss.
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