Tips Dec 19, 2021 14:15

I understand that some clubs offer trial dates to men before they officially join. Are women told in advance when they’re being approached for one of these trial offers?

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Is it possible to turn down such a trial offer?
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I’m Nana Ayase ☆ President Kida, exactly. The staff want her to join after the trial too, so they reach out to the woman they consider the best among the Gold women. If I thought, “I was chosen as the best out of 4,000 women,” I might even be able to deliver a cool line like: “Well then, I guess I’ll meet her. To think I’ve fallen so far as to carry the Universe name on my shoulders.” That’s incredibly cool—but it also puts a lot of pressure on me (汗).
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木田(社長)
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Kida here, the club representative. Of course we can tell him. So if you’re not interested, it’s better for everyone—the club and the man—if you just say no. If we hid that and arranged the meeting anyway, it could turn into: “I was so happy to get your offer ❤️” “Huh? I didn’t make an offer. The staff chose you.” Awkward… But here’s the thing: the staff wants women to join after the trial, so we reach out to the woman considered the best among our Gold women. If you think, “I was chosen as the best out of 4,000 women,” you might even be able to come out with a cool line like: “Fine, I’ll meet him. I must really be losing my touch if I’m carrying the Universe name now.”
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. https://universe-club.jp/men/trial-dating/ Apparently, women aren’t told about this. If you get ahead of it and tell the club that you don’t accept trial dates, they may let you turn one down. To Kida-san: Exactly. I feel the same way. The staff often only tell you the bare minimum to be safe, but I think that’s one of Universe’s bad habits. Unless it’s something seriously problematic, wouldn’t both men and women be happier if they told you what kind of offer was coming your way? When making the offer, they should at least say something like, “This man previously asked us to introduce him to someone with experience in the adult entertainment industry, so he knows that you have that experience.” Please, for the love of God. One of the values dating clubs provide is that they save you from having to feel each other out. Why diminish that value?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I didn’t know there was such a thing as a trial offer, so I checked out the URL Kazu shared. I think all you have to do is tell the staff member in advance that you’d like to decline trial offers. But since it says men only have to tell them their preferred type, it sounds kind of like the “free choice” system at adult entertainment venues. I’m not sure how many men would be interested, though…
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