I met him here last year, and we've been seeing each other about once a week ever since.
We're incredibly close. Whenever I stay over at his place, we spend almost the entire day cuddled up together, watching movies and chatting about random things. Before we know it, it's evening.
Even though we see each other weekly, I start wanting to see him again right away. Honestly, once a week doesn't feel like enough.
Of course, we argue sometimes, but we talk things through, make up, and somehow become even closer afterward—that's what we're like.
But when I look through the questions here, I get the impression that there are a lot of complaints and frustrations about papas. Are there other people like us who genuinely like each other and are really close? Are we in the minority?
Among all the people we've met through Universe, we often joke that we're definitely the most lovey-dovey couple. That led us to say, “Why don't we ask everyone here?”—so that's why I'm posting this question.
This turned into a bit of a bragging post, but please tell me about the ways you're close with your papa!
That’s pretty much what it’s like. We go to the movies, take drives, give each other massages, and before we know it, seven or eight hours have passed.
With my favorite girl, I see her and spend time with her about two or three times as often as you do.
—Paper Airplane
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I also have a papa (a male supporter) I see every week and get intimate with a lot, and even that isn’t enough for him. We’re crazy about each other and very much in love. I probably give you a run for your money, lol.
Marika
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I’m Kida, the site administrator.
I’m trying to establish a blunt, sharp-tongued, overly familiar persona, so please forgive my rudeness.
Quit showing off your lovey-dovey relationships here.
You guys have had times when you were desperate because you were short on money or couldn’t get a woman, right?
The people asking questions here are going through exactly that right now.
They’re asking desperately because they’re trying to get out of it.
You guys can go watch porn and have your fun at a city hotel.
Honestly, I couldn’t be more jealous.
Wishing you both everlasting happiness.
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I’m Nana Ayase ☆
When I first joined, I wrote some pretty intense things in my profile, and I still haven’t found a papa (a male supporter).
I’ve had offers, but I don’t know… they just haven’t felt right.
Lately, I’ve started thinking maybe it’s time to give up.
I’m looking for someone I can genuinely get along with, but maybe my time has come to move on. What a shame.
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BB7 here.
I’ve been seeing my current regular girl for about a year now. We meet without worrying about the time, stay over, travel together, and know each other’s real names. She openly talks about her family situation, her friends’ names, and so on, so I know quite a bit about her private life.
We get along so well that, if I were single and younger, I sometimes think we might have ended up in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
Neither of us is putting on an act, and we meet casually while maintaining a comfortable distance. From the outside, we might simply look like close friends.
They say that roughly 10% of people are responsible for online criticism and hateful posts. Isn’t it possible that this site is also just a place where that minority vents their complaints and frustrations?
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It’s Joe.
Shi-chan grew up in Yamagata and was very close to her grandmother, so she’s an excellent cook. I started cooking after Shi-chan gave me a kitchen knife for my birthday this year. Naturally, she’s my teacher. I’m still pretty clumsy with a knife and don’t have much of a repertoire, but I’m doing my best. I’m in charge of breakfast most mornings, and about half the time I also make bento lunches for both Shi-chan and me. I make miso soup every morning using dashi from the shaved bonito flakes I buy at Nishiki Market. As it turns out, I prefer mackerel flakes to bonito flakes.
The problem is keeping the kitchen organized. I’ve been told to clean up and wash things as I cook, but I’m still not very good at it. Still, I always wash the Aritsugu santoku knife Shi-chan gave me with Jif after using it. That deserves some credit, right?
Anyway, with sixty only a few years away, I never imagined I’d be playing house with a mama.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
We’re not exactly head over heels for each other either.
We see each other about once a month, and we both keep a certain distance between us…
That said, I don’t date women who use anonymous Q&A sites to bash men.
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
I’ve never really had a lovey-dovey relationship or anything. We’re more of a four-hours, ¥50,000 arrangement. Pretty sad...
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Maezawa from the president’s office here, answering as well.
> We often talk about how we’re definitely the most lovey-dovey couple ever,
> > so we thought, “Why not ask this question box?”
Even if you ask, there’s no way to know who’s the most lovey-dovey. And I think there’s value in simply feeling that you two are number one, so try not to worry too much about other people. It’s perfectly fine for you to be the most lovey-dovey couple in your own world.
That said, just to be a little mean:
If you told your papa (a male supporter) that you wanted 10 million yen, would he casually give it to you?
If you were really that lovey-dovey, wouldn’t he?
If he couldn’t, then perhaps you’re not number one—just about average in the lovey-dovey department.
That was a little mean of me.
Still, I think what matters is not worrying about anyone else and getting wrapped up in your own little world.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I mainly have three papas, and I’m very close with all of them.
One of my papas has been with me for over two years. We’re so lovey-dovey that he sometimes laughs shyly and says, “We’re pretty much in love, huh? lol” I’m really glad we met, and starting tomorrow, I’ll be staying at the Grand Hyatt with him for six nights. We sleep cuddled up together every night lol.
Another papa used to be extremely popular with women, but he always calls me after drinking parties because he “doesn’t want to make me worry.” He never fails to message me good morning and good night either. He’s even told me his phone passcode.
I still see the papa I met four years ago about once a week, and we always message on LINE in the morning and at night. We talk about yesterday’s stock prices, today’s predictions, silly dirty jokes, and things like that lol.
His wife keeps a close eye on him, and he’s still a very hands-on dad with a child in kindergarten, so it’s hard for us to travel together. That makes me sad, but whenever we can meet, we spend as much time cuddling as possible lol. He often takes me to test-drive events and gatherings for Ferrari owners, and he’s a fun papa to talk cars with.
My other papa lives in the U.S., so we don’t get to meet very often, but we stay in touch at least once a week and also FaceTime. I’m looking forward to seeing him at the beginning of the year.
I could go on gushing about them, but this has gotten pretty long, so I’ll stop here.
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I’m a male member—and a total loser.
I started wondering who I’m closest to, and it’s overwhelmingly my former “ace” (an aspiring celebrity), whom I recently got back together with.
That said, our top priorities are different: she’s focused on her entertainment career, as she’s already starting to appear on TV, while I’m a business-obsessed person who prefers to keep even our meetings short. So we’re not all lovey-dovey and attached at the hip like you and your partner seem to be.
Your question is really sweet, and I’m jealous. I’m always happy to see questions where people brag a little about their relationship♪
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I’m in Seattle.
I’ve taken several trips with my closest friend in her late twenties, and it’s always been fun. Even after traveling together for about a week, we’re still happy spending time together.
Even the person I’ve been seeing for two years, who can’t travel, is still adorable whenever I look at her, and I never get tired of talking with her. She’s 21.
I hope she finds happiness with her career and everything else.
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I’m Rin, a female SALON member.
This is such a great question!!
Unfortunately, I’m still fairly new to dating clubs, so I haven’t had a relationship like the one you describe—but I’m jealous!
I hope I can build such a wonderful relationship someday too!
I’m looking forward to hearing the other respondents’ stories as well!
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’ve also been seeing two women for about a year. We may not be as lovey-dovey as you and your partners, but we hang out without any particular plans, and before we know it, it’s nighttime.
I think there are quite a few couples in these comfortable, easygoing relationships.
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I’m Fuu, a papa-katsu columnist.
There must be quite a lot of papa-katsu couples who get along well—even if they aren’t extremely close—by being considerate of each other and making things work.
After all, the feedback on their dates is overwhelmingly positive.
Unfortunately, it seems that people who want to vent or bad-mouth others end up posting in the Q&A box.
With my monthly arrangement partners, we’re affectionate in bed.
Because we care about each other and treat one another with kindness, we’re able to spend wonderfully comfortable, truly special time together.
Some jaded people might say, “Of course it’s all an act” (lol). But our relationships have lasted five years, and keeping up an act for five years would be pretty exhausting.
There may be a little bit of acting involved, but I think most of it is genuine.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
It sounds like you have a wonderfully close relationship.
We may not be number one, but we’re close too! (笑)
We only see each other every other week, but we stay in touch every day. We’ve kept up this pace for three years since we started seeing each other.
Ah! Since there’s an age gap of over 40 years, I guess we’re not exactly lovebirds. Maybe you could describe us as a papa-katsu girl and her grandpa.
Lately, I’ve been studying investing, but I’m not charging her any consulting fees. (笑)
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