Are there really no girls who see me with genuine romantic feelings?
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When we meet, they do show a little interest in me, but reading this site makes me feel that deep down, they’re forcing themselves.
That said, I’m married, so even if someone did approach me with genuine romantic feelings, I couldn’t return them.
But I’m here to be emotionally comforted.
Honestly, I want to be adored so much that someone begs me to get divorced.
My dream is to say, “Sorry, I can’t,” and cut ties with her.
You all feel the same way, don’t you?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
> Deep down, I want to be doted on so much that she’d even ask me to leave my wife.
Once things reach that point, though, she’ll probably set things up so your wife finds out. Then your wife could discover everything, demand tens of millions of yen in divorce compensation, anonymous letters could start arriving at your company, and rumors could spread around the office.
I think it could turn into a pretty serious situation.
And when you say you want to cut things off with her in the end, I can’t help wondering whether such a self-centered questioner has given any thought at all to the other person.
Come to think of it, services that arrange breakups were popular for a while. If you consulted one of those, someone like that might come along. It would all be an act—they’d be doing it as a job.
It could get to the point where even a genuinely loving couple broke up, so you could feel that it was a real romance, be doted on and have your wish fulfilled, while the woman wouldn’t get hurt because it was only work, and her family wouldn’t be destroyed.
The only drawback is that, since you’re the one who hired her, you might always wonder whether she was one of those professionals.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
Since this is a dating club, I imagine many people prefer a transactional relationship, but I think something more could be possible if the man you meet is truly wonderful.
I don’t know what kind of person you are, but I hope you find the kind of relationship you’re looking for!
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It’s Joe.
I’ve always been pretty romance-oriented myself, so I think I understand how you feel. Looking back, I feel like I may have been thinking the same way when I joined three years ago.
You probably already know this full well, but don’t you think it would be the most impure kind of encounter imaginable if the alluring woman you met after paying the membership fee, annual dues, and introduction fee happened to have “genuine romantic feelings”? Haha.
Also, the “being fawned over” you’re imagining probably exists entirely in a fantasy world. Before you can clink the ice in your glass and deliver your signature line—“It’s impossible”—it’ll already have turned into a bloody battle. I’ll never forget the terror of waking up one morning to find divorce papers and an itemized bill for compensation sitting on the table.
That said, I’m practically living with a young woman now. Of course, she’s purely interested in the money—and refreshingly straightforward about it.
You never know what might happen when you belong to this world. But from an outsider’s perspective, being here is like skipping through a field of landmines planted by Pol Pot’s faction. Let your fantasies run too far, and there’ll be a massive explosion. Consider yourself warned!
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I’m Dai, a male member.
That’s absolutely not the case.
When I was married, I only had eyes for my wife.
Please don’t assume that every man who belongs to a club is like the person who asked this question.
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I’m Aya, one of the female members.
Questioner, you’re interesting. There are actually quite a few papas like that. They’re my absolute favorite. On the other hand, men who are like, “I’m fine with a transactional relationship,” aren’t very rewarding to cultivate, so they’re not really my type.
I’ve been involved with several papas like you, Questioner, and I made sure to meet their needs and keep them happy. Just today, I told one of my papas, “It would be so hard if you died before me. How would I go on living?” He smiled and happily replied, “Don’t go killing me off.”
That said, the important thing to understand is that papas like this also provide a very generous (well-paying) allowance. It’s enough to have them take care of you on a life-supporting level. That’s precisely why I give them deep love in return—it’s a genuine give-and-take.
Questioner, perhaps your allowance is a little too low…
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
A woman in her 30s whom I used to date invited me to see the movie *Will I Stay Single Forever?*, starring Minami Tanaka, so I’m going with her.
First, go watch the trailer.
For me, it’s a movie where I’ll be criticized by this woman in her 30s, by my wife, and by the papa-katsu girls—a full-on attack from three sides.
I have no idea what she was thinking when she invited me. Is she trying to kill me?
After the movie, am I going to have to say, “Should we get married?” It seems like exactly the kind of movie that creates that sort of atmosphere. How terrifying.
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Dreaming is fine, but that’s a little unhinged.
“Sorry, I just can’t…” What an idiot.
And the fact that they actually said it here instead of keeping it to themselves… well…
Marika
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
My partner asked me to get divorced, so ending things isn’t just a dream.
I’d like to stay together with a favorite person for a long time, but it’s hard to find someone who truly satisfies me.
Consideration and thoughtfulness are essential from both sides. I want us to share intense, meaningful moments in bed—a kind of pretend romance limited to the room.
Once we step outside, though, I’d prefer a relationship where we don’t interfere in each other’s private lives.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
That kind of thing is a hassle, so I’m not interested. If I were looking for someone like that, I’d probably look outside a dating club.
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