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Nov 22, 2021 21:17
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think there are that many men here—even among the people answering questions—who offer 100,000 yen on a pay-per-meeting basis…
And yet, after receiving that much, they still want expensive gifts too…
They say human desire knows no bounds, and they’re right.
あや
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I think it’s because they want women to be humble and demure. It may sound contradictory, but when a woman knows how to make a modest request, it probably makes them want to give her an expensive gift. Of course, some people may have a firm rule never to give anything worth more than a certain amount, no matter what.
てつ
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Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
¥100,000 per pay-per-meeting arrangement is incredible. I pay only half that, at most.
I’ve never had anyone pressure me for gifts, either. I’m contrarian by nature, so if she asks me for something, I definitely won’t buy it for her. On the other hand, if I think it’s something she genuinely needs, I’ll give it to her regardless of the occasion.
茉莉花
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Other
Perhaps it’s because Japanese people tend to dislike pushiness, and humility and modesty are considered virtues in Japan. Not everyone feels this way, of course, but I think many people do.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t give her that much money.
I believe a gift is something you give because you genuinely want to.