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Nov 22, 2021 21:17
5 answers
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think there are that many men here—even among the people answering questions—who offer 100,000 yen on a pay-per-meeting basis…
And yet, after receiving that much, they still want expensive gifts too…
They say human desire knows no bounds, and they’re right.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I think it’s because they want women to be humble and demure. It may sound contradictory, but when a woman knows how to make a modest request, it probably makes them want to give her an expensive gift. Of course, some people may have a firm rule never to give anything worth more than a certain amount, no matter what.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
¥100,000 per pay-per-meeting arrangement is incredible. I pay only half that, at most.
I’ve never had anyone pressure me for gifts, either. I’m contrarian by nature, so if she asks me for something, I definitely won’t buy it for her. On the other hand, if I think it’s something she genuinely needs, I’ll give it to her regardless of the occasion.
Other
Perhaps it’s because Japanese people tend to dislike pushiness, and humility and modesty are considered virtues in Japan. Not everyone feels this way, of course, but I think many people do.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t give her that much money.
I believe a gift is something you give because you genuinely want to.