I’m in a romantic relationship with someone I met here, without an allowance.

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We live together, but after a few months, he secretly resumed his activities behind my back. I no longer feel that I want to stay by his side forever, so I’m thinking of leaving. I’ve devoted a lot of feelings to him, but I don’t intend to blame him. After all, this is where we met. I thought I had left papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) behind, but I’ve started thinking about returning to this world. That would be the saddest thing for me, and it’s an option I’d prefer to avoid if possible… I’m considering starting again for various reasons: I feel comfortable with men considerably older than me; I want to meet someone even better than him, find happiness, and get back at him; and I want to recover through papa-katsu the money I could have earned during the time I was with him without an allowance, among other things. I would be grateful for any advice. Thank you in advance.

Answer 1

I’m Osaka, a male member. Above all, feeling betrayed is really painful. It sounds like you’re trying to move on, so for now, you’ve done well getting through it. Also, the way you use words like “quit for good,” “get revenge,” and “collect” here and there is a little scary. Maybe it would be better to take a breather before starting again, lol.

Answer 2

I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. If you were betrayed, you should recover the money from the man who betrayed you. Asking another man to pay would be misguided.

Answer 3

I’m Kamihikoki, a male member. Unless you have an extremely compelling reason, you’re better off not doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). And no matter how you met, it’s better for both of you to be grateful to each other. There’s no need to look back and think, “Give me back the time I wasted.”

Answer 4

I’m a losing male member. You don’t need a reason to start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) again. For example, I’m “Mr. Waffler,” constantly stopping and restarting my answers like this. I’m tempted to change my username from Losing Man to: Waffler.

Answer 5

I’m Kazu, a male member. At first, she seemed like a genuinely decent person, but later on I found her rather boring.

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