I’m a female member who has had breast augmentation. I receive offers about three or four times a month, but I haven’t been able to meet anyone I can see regularly. I originally had a very small chest, and it was difficult to endure people making it the subject of jokes, so I decided to have surgery. Regardless of the reason, is having breast augmentation really a disadvantage when it comes to continuing a relationship?
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Also, would it give a better impression if I explained that I had it done for reasons like these?
I’ve tried to think of other possible issues besides having breast augmentation, but I can’t really come up with anything. If there are any other areas I should reconsider, I’d appreciate your advice.
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
I can only speak from my own experience, but whenever I’ve had breast augmentation, the relationship has ended—almost 100% of the time.
I still haven’t figured out why, but that’s how it’s been every time.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
There’s nothing wrong with breast augmentation. And when I make an offer, I’ve already seen her face, so it’s not that her looks are the issue…
I guess it’s her personality and manners. And also how things are down there and the way she climaxes. When I orgasm, I squirt so much it practically makes a pond, so when I meet a man at his place, I try to hold it in even if I climax (sweat).
I’m going to buy a waterproof sheet next time.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
So you tell people that you’ve had breast augmentation? You’re very honest.
I assumed most people would usually keep it hidden, even when it’s obvious.
I like large breasts, but if I don’t notice, it doesn’t bother me. If they felt unusually firm, I might get suspicious—I’ve heard natural breasts fall to the sides when you lie down.
If I found out, I might lose interest.
Honesty isn’t always the best policy; sometimes ignorance is bliss.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here, answering as well.
> It was so painful having people make me the butt of jokes that I had breast augmentation.
However, if you only tell the staff that you had breast augmentation, the men won’t know what size you were originally, so they may wonder, “Why did she get breast augmentation?”
I think you should have told them during the interview that it was emotionally difficult for you. If you already did, then there shouldn’t be a problem.
> Would it give a better impression if I explained that I had it done for reasons like these?
To begin with, I think it’s better not to bring up your breasts yourself. You’re not dating your breasts, after all.
Wait—did you perhaps have them augmented all the way to a very large size, like a G cup?
In that case, the men may bring it up themselves, which could make things difficult. Some men may feel as though they’re dating your breasts, so once they realize they’re artificial, many may lose interest.
> I’ve also tried to think of other personal issues besides having breast augmentation, but I can’t really come up with anything.
First, I think you should try not to focus so much on your breasts. If you’re around a B to D cup, I don’t think most men will say anything in particular, and most women probably don’t bring it up themselves either.
Once you can stop thinking about your breasts, you’ll start considering what else might be the issue. You may also begin to notice things from the other person’s expressions.
Basically, I think it comes down to whether the conversation is enjoyable and whether the adult relationship (intimate) is satisfying.
If you carefully observe the other person’s expressions in those situations, you may notice something that helps you understand what’s going on.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Some people may feel that women who’ve had breast augmentation look a little artificial, but I don’t think getting breast implants automatically means the arrangement won’t continue.
Could it be that the papa isn’t satisfied with the intimacy? Intimacy is important for maintaining a relationship.
For me, the ideal combination is:
- A cute face (my type)
- A great figure (my type)
- A good personality (my type)
Plus:
- She’s tight down there
- She stays close and is responsive during intimacy
When the physical compatibility is good, I sometimes continue seeing someone despite other shortcomings.
Even though my current monthly partner isn’t especially tight, she’s very affectionate—she sits next to me as soon as we enter the room, stays close and hugs me during intimacy, and cuddles me afterward. It satisfies my need for validation.
If you want the relationship to continue, try observing your papa carefully and doing your best to satisfy him during intimacy.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
You know, I just can’t help thinking—that’s not really the point.
Though I know what you’re thinking: “You’re flat-chested, so you have no room to talk!”
Yeah, sorry.
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I’m a male member named Paper Airplane.
Breast augmentation doesn’t appeal to me, but I have no problem with small breasts, so breasts themselves aren’t important to me.
Sexual compatibility is important after all, and ultimately, I think the key is how a woman reaches climax.
You might want to learn the techniques for reaching climax yourself and practice them.
Once you understand what works for you, I think you’ll be able to continue seeing a man who can help you reach climax in a way that satisfies you.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Keeping an arrangement going can be very difficult. But I find it hard to imagine that it wouldn’t continue simply because she’s had breast augmentation. Even if a woman I liked had implants, that alone wouldn’t make me decide not to see her again.
I think the reason is either that the time together isn’t enjoyable enough to make him want to meet again, or that the sex isn’t good.
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