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Sep 26, 2021 01:24
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Joe, a male member.
After reading this, I found myself muttering, “Amazing!” With that many people, I feel like I’d lose track completely—but since it sounds like a long-term arrangement, perhaps you’re just very good at managing them.
The most impressive woman I’ve come across had a client list of 150 men, complete with profiles, restaurants they liked, topics they’d discussed, and so on (lol). Out of curiosity, I asked, “If you called out, ‘Everyone, assemble!’ how many do you think would show up?” She replied, “Maybe around 100? You’d come too, right, Joe?”
When she eventually left the service, she organized her client list as follows:
1. First, she picked out 50 people.
2. Then she narrowed those down to five by rolling dice.
Just thought I’d share that as a reference. Though I guess it’s not very useful as a reference?! Sorry!
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
Well, aren’t you doing well…
Oops, that turned into more of a comment than a question!
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
If you’re going to use phrases like “deciding who to keep and who to cut,” why not gather everyone together and hold a “○○ Keep-or-Cut Briefing”?
Or better yet, set up a system and distribute a “○○ Mistress Booking App” that lets them reserve dates on a calendar.
That way, you might save yourself both the trouble and the headaches.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Twenty women, and still counting… Even meeting each one once or twice a month is impressive.
I also have an arrangement with someone about once a month, but after ejaculating once, I need a full day to recover, so that many women would naturally be impossible for me.
Five women I’m seeing would be more than enough.
Still, I don’t think it’s right to keep adding women whenever you feel like it, then cut them off when it becomes inconvenient.
For me, sexual compatibility is the most important factor.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
If you want to see someone about four times a month, why not narrow it down to two or three women who suit you in terms of how they treat you, your sexual compatibility, how well your bodies fit, their looks, and so on?
The more women you have sex with, the higher the risk of catching an STI. And seeing someone only once a month is basically the same as not having them around at all, isn’t it?
☆ From the woman’s point of view, I think she would assume she’s at the very bottom of the ranking among your women. And from the man’s point of view, she probably is at the bottom too. What a shame.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
I’m not entirely sure, but I think the first thing to consider is your own capacity—how many times a month you can realistically meet. Then you can decide on a rotation based on how to fill those available slots.
Your priority should be your regulars. In your case, that would be the ten people you’ve been seeing for over two years. That leaves about ten people on your second string, so I’d fill your schedule with your first-string partners and use the second string to fill any remaining availability.
The criteria for selecting from the second string should be whether they’re strong enough to move up to the first string. If there’s no one you particularly want to choose, you’ll probably need to decide whom to drop.
You could also consider allocating slots by type. In my case, my partners were women, but for a while I categorized candidates into four groups—tall/short × large breasts/small breasts—and filled a set number of slots in each category. Just something to consider.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
At the club, people generally fall into two types: those who date lots of different people, and those who stick with just one, two, or maybe three partners.
Since you’re the former, I think you’re fine as you are.
You probably wouldn’t remember things like, “You came to this place quite a while ago,” or the little details about each person’s likes and dislikes…
With someone you see once or twice a month, I think it’s possible to cut back to once every six months—or even once every year or two.
This is Paper Airplane, a male member who met with his ace five times this week. (If you meet that often, does that make you their ace, too??)
P.S. You seem to have lots of ongoing arrangements, but it doesn’t look like you’re actually dating any of them exclusively.