I think my profile may say something like “a distinctive woman” or “a woman with a unique vibe” in the staff comments.
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(There have been a few times when I got that impression from conversations with men.)
Are words like “distinctive” or “unique” meant as compliments?
Especially when they’re used to describe a woman, it seems to me they can only mean something like “an unattractive oddball.”
I don’t think I said anything particularly unconventional during the interview.
Men, if you saw words like these in a profile comment, would you consider her a person to avoid and pass on the offer? I’m worried.
Maezawa from the President’s Office here, answering as well.
> Are words like “unique” or “distinctive” meant as compliments?
I think they’re simply describing the impression they got. They’re not necessarily meant as an insult, but I wouldn’t necessarily call them compliments either.
**A unique woman:**
For someone looking for a unique woman, you might be exactly the kind of woman they’ve been searching for.
On the other hand, someone looking for an ordinary, unremarkable woman might think, “I’d prefer someone more conventional and less distinctive.”
That’s really all it means.
**A woman with a distinctive vibe:**
It probably comes across in the photos, but just in case it doesn’t, I think they also mention it in the comments.
Someone who prefers an ordinary woman probably wouldn’t make an offer, while someone who likes that kind of vibe probably would.
The club’s comments try to convey each woman’s characteristics as accurately as possible.
> When used to describe a woman, it seems to mean nothing more than “an eccentric ugly woman.”
I’m not sure why you see it that way, but if you value ordinary women, then there’s no reason for someone to make an offer to you, is there?
Someone who’s just like everyone else… That sounds like saying anyone would do.
A unique woman… Wonderful.
A woman with a distinctive vibe… I can imagine someone thinking, “I’d like to spend time with that kind of atmosphere.”
> I didn’t think I said anything particularly unusual during the interview.
I feel like unique people often don’t realize it about themselves.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
What makes someone distinctive or gives them a unique vibe isn’t so much anything specific they say, but rather things like the pace of their speech and the personal clothing choices they make.
Since you’ve received an offer and are dating him, please cherish your current partner.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Since you received an offer, it means you were chosen. No papa (a male supporter) would offer money to someone he found unattractive, so he doesn’t see you as ugly or as a person to avoid.
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It’s me.
You’re getting plenty of offers, right?
I hear quite a few women receive no offers at all even after registering, so it’s probably thanks to the staff comments, photos, and videos that showcase your appeal so well.
The staff write their comments with the hope that “this woman gets lots of offers.”
After all, the club’s business is sustained by the setting fees.
Rather than worrying too much about the little details, I think it’s better to focus on making each date as fulfilling as possible.
By the way, I’m very drawn to words like “unique” and “a distinctive vibe.”
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I take it as a compliment. Club comments are usually written with positive intentions.
I find women who seem ordinary and interchangeable boring, so I make offers to women whose comments give me a sense of personality.
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I’m a loser of a male member who’s always told by women I meet through arrangements, “You’re a rare breed,” or “People like you don’t exist these days.”
I’ve thoroughly researched everything papa-katsu women are likely to dislike and eliminated all of it. As a result, I’m often told, “You’re such a rare breed. I mean that as a compliment.”
So, while words like “individualistic” or “unique” can be taken positively or negatively, I sometimes see comments from interviewers saying quite directly, “I wouldn’t recommend her,” when they judge a woman to be a poor fit. That’s why I don’t think those expressions are necessarily negative.
Women always tell me, “You’re kind of unusual, aren’t you?” too.
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