Since COVID, I’ve become really concerned about kissing. Would men still be put off if I said no kis...

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Since COVID, I’ve become really concerned about kissing. Would men still be put off if I said no kissing and kept my mask on during a C or D date?

茉莉花 · Answer

If the guy showed up wearing nothing but a mask, wouldn’t it be so funny that you couldn’t do anything?

It’d be even funnier than being naked except for socks lol

Marika

西中 恵 · Answer

I’m Meg, a female member.

I was registered as Type D.

If I were in the opposite position, I’d probably be spitting venom like:

“What the hell? Are you taking me for a fool?!”

フラグメーカー · Answer

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.

No thanks—I can’t do it without kissing. I’m someone who considers kissing important.

I’d turn them down, saying, “A mask?! In that case, let’s not force it. Sorry.”

ダイ · Answer

I’m Dai, a male member.

I once read in a magazine that some male customers go to adult entertainment venues wanting to wear a mask during the encounter.

The article’s tone was basically, “Do they really want sex that badly?”

I’d like to ask the questioner, “Do you really want the money that badly?”

It’s not so much that I dislike a C or D who won’t kiss and wants to wear a mask. It’s just that, if that’s all you’re looking for, you can have a cheaper experience at an adult entertainment venue.

あや · Answer

I’m Aya, a female member.

If it’s bothering you that much, I think it would be better to take a break from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for a while. If you can’t earn money even working in nightlife while wearing a mask, papa-katsu would probably be difficult for the same reason… If you’re not making any money and have to constantly worry, I can’t help wondering what the point is.

Fuu · Answer

I’m Fuu, a column writer.

Even if you’re wearing masks, if either person is carrying the virus, it seems like it could still spread. If you’re really worried about COVID, it may be best to skip the adult relationship altogether.

I once met a girl who, after we got into bed, said no kissing and no touching above the neck. There was no continuation after that. She was also completely passive—barely making any sounds and showing no reaction.

Even if she’s beautiful, it’s difficult to feel like you’re having an adult relationship with a pretty doll. I want to be with a real person.

迷える60代 · Answer

I’m a confused man in my 60s.

I do like kissing, so we kissed while wearing our masks… moving them aside or putting them back depending on where we were caressing… haha.

It also depends on whether my partner is fully vaccinated.

Ayase Nana,  
Thank you!  
Exactly!  
I hadn’t really thought about it, but we prepared two brand-new masks and went ahead with it（笑）

And thank you for your concern about Shiga as well. Korian is enjoyable even in winter! Looking out over Lake Biwa in its snowy scenery… you should definitely stop by for lunch…

綾瀬なな · Answer

This is Ayase Nana ♡

I guess you got scared because someone asked a question saying they had been infected.

No kissing, and a C or D…
I wonder how many men at the club would be okay with not kissing?

As Kazu-sama mentioned, I imagined wearing masks in bed and even in the bath, too—lol.

I’ve never received an offer from anyone who didn’t kiss.

Why not leave the club or take a break until COVID dies down?

♡ To the lost woman in her 60s: The outside of a mask is covered with an incredible amount of bacteria and viruses, so don’t kiss over it. It’s dangerous.

☆ This is unrelated to the question, but I had said I was going to Shiga. However, the trip was canceled because of the state of emergency, so I couldn’t go. I’m sorry, especially after you took the trouble to tell me about such delicious-looking places. I’m planning to go again in October, so I’ll give them a try then.

カズ · Answer

I’m Kazu, a male member.

I don’t kiss, but are you planning to keep your mask on in bed too? I couldn’t help but laugh imagining a naked woman wearing nothing but a mask. No thanks.

I don’t think you should force yourself to entertain someone if you’re not comfortable with it.

I’d like to try a glory hole, though, so I’d be open to setting up a wall or curtain with a hole in it and having sex through it.

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