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Aug 23, 2021 12:10
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You signed up here just for fun, so why are you trying to act like such a nice guy? lol
A PJ is basically just a sex toy, isn’t that understood without saying?
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a column writer.
People find value in different things. Even a stone lying on the road might seem valuable to someone, who would take it home and cherish it. Most people simply don’t see any value in it and kick it away.
papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is just like that stone.
If you see it as an onahole, then that’s what it is. If you see it as romance—with money being the only difference—then it’s romance.
Some people only want masturbation to end in ejaculation, while others watch porn and want to experience it as a kind of simulated romance, timing their release with the scene’s climax.
There are as many valid answers as there are people, so isn’t it unnecessary to make such extreme judgments based solely on your own narrow values?
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Calling someone a fleshlight is awful.
That’s just the questioner’s personal opinion—it’s by no means an unspoken rule.
Both male and female members are human, so if you don’t treat each other with respect, people will dislike you. This is a relationship, so once they dislike you, it’s over. You won’t be able to enjoy the benefits anymore.
And just because this is for fun doesn’t mean it’s okay to say things that hurt the other person.
Meg
Female
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光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
What a shame.
If a papa thought of me that way, I’m sure it wouldn’t last long.
Please don’t lump me in with a tool.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think signing up just for fun has anything to do with whether someone is a good person.
As for the idea that PJs are just human masturbators, I can’t agree. This is a dating club, so I believe the premise is to have a relationship. If you want a masturbator, please buy one at an adult shop.
Thank you, Mac.
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Thank you, Mac. Exactly.
Also, being told “You’re a good person” somehow makes me feel uncomfortable, while “You’re a bad person” actually makes me happy. I wonder why, lol.
Well then, shall I go pretend to be a good guy while doing something bad again today? I wonder what lie I’ll tell.