Tips Aug 14, 2021 15:06

I want to get a part-time job, but I don’t have time because of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I spend more than half the month doing it. I’m a student, so I originally started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to cover my living expenses. I have an adult relationship (intimate) about five times a month, but most of my meetings are dinner only (no intimacy). I usually make around ¥500,000 a month this way, so I can live comfortably. However, I feel like I’m becoming lazy if I only do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) without having a regular part-time job, so I work late at night when I don’t have papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) appointments. The hourly pay is much lower than what I make through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but it’s really fun and makes me feel like a normal college student. I’d even like to work various part-time jobs during the day, but I also want to focus on my studies, and I obviously can’t keep pushing myself this hard. At my age, as a college student, should I prioritize money or reduce my papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) activities in favor of finding fulfilling work? For a young woman, which is more important: the communication skills you gain from talking with men of high social status, or the experience you gain through part-time jobs?

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シアトル
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I’m in Seattle. Personally, I think papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) should come first. A part-time job is just selling your time by the hour. While you’re young, I think it’s better to go all in with the goal of saving around ¥50 million. That way, you’ll have something tangible to show for it and an advantage for the rest of your life.
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I think both are necessary. I’d suggest cutting back on your living expenses a little so you can make both work.
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Social status… Be careful not to mistakenly think you’re on equal footing just because you can talk casually with them, let your sense of money get out of balance, or overestimate what your abilities are worth. Keep these things in mind, and stay in control of your papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Wouldn’t it be better to learn how to conduct yourself with people senior to you and with professionals, while also maintaining a lifestyle within your means so you don’t lose sight of your actual earning potential? As for being able to communicate with people of high social standing… unless you first properly learn a profession and earn your place in those circles, there’s really no point in talking about it. Akari
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I recommend cutting back your papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to around ¥200,000 a month and getting a part-time job, since living on ¥500,000 a month can make you complacent. I think what young women really need is a sensible attitude toward money.
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