Kazu, “I think flashy guys and serious guys have different tastes.”
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Exactly!
For example,
“Flashy guys”...
(1) Young. Looks like someone you’d find at a lounge in Nishi-Azabu. A nouveau riche type. Vague occupation. Loves designer brands.
(2) Works for a foreign-affiliated company or one of Japan’s five major general trading companies. Has a great physique. Women keep coming to him one after another even without joining a dating club.
“Serious guys”
(1) They never used to be popular and got married without ever knowing how to have fun. After getting married and becoming financially successful, they try to find women through dating clubs or hostess clubs.
(2) They have little experience with women. Since they don’t know how to interact with women, they often misjudge personal boundaries. They dislike brothels, but still want to have fun with women other than their wives. They don’t want a transactional relationship or multiple casual partners. They want a woman they can see over the long term.
Would you say that’s about right?
I’d like to hear men’s opinions on what kinds of women appeal to each type, and, using celebrities as examples, which women tend to be liked by which kinds of men.
Are you the type who gets a kick out of putting everything into categories?
Honestly, I find it so boring...
I mean, if there are 100 people, there are 100 different preferences, right?
—Akari
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Men in the papa age group have lived long enough to develop fairly complex preferences in women.
What’s more, dating clubs make it easy for men to look for women who match their specific tastes, so I think men tend to become particularly picky about whether someone is their type.
Just by looking at the questions submitted to the Q&A box, I’ve realized that some men have surprisingly niche preferences—some prefer refined, sheltered young ladies, while others prefer women who are genuinely struggling financially.
Also, since dating clubs allow people to see multiple partners, it’s possible to date two women with completely opposite personalities at the same time.
That’s why I think it’s pointless to divide papas at dating clubs into categories and analyze what types of women appeal to each category of man.
And even if you try comparing them to celebrities, it doesn’t really work, since all celebrities already belong to the same category: celebrities.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Following up on the previous question, this is another one I don’t even feel like answering.
I started writing this earlier but decided not to. This time, though, I’ll say it.
Maybe you’re just unlucky with the men you meet, or perhaps papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) simply isn’t right for you.
I think you’ll only meet men who are a suitable match for you.
Most men would steer clear of a woman like you, so I would too.
If you’re a different person from earlier, then I apologize.
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