She was an exceptionally beautiful model, but it seemed her usual allowance was 200,000–300,000 yen, with 100,000 yen being the absolute minimum due to special circumstances. She apparently felt some affection toward me, and in my case, she might have accepted even that minimum (?). After much deliberation, though, I decided that “something beyond my means wouldn’t last” and turned her down myself. She was the kind of woman I may never have the chance to meet again, so I can’t stop wondering whether I made the right decision.

I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ It’s not too late to start. Your circumstances can change, so go ahead and give it a try. The real problem would be regretting that you didn’t. If it no longer fits your means, you can always stop. You won’t grow if you always date women from the same social circle. That “Hmm…” feeling will be gone by the third time. That’s the kind of experience a dating club offers. Please take the time to consider whether the woman you thought was truly wonderful really was. Sometimes, after meeting two or three times and taking a calm, objective look, you start to notice all sorts of things. Men’s worries arise as part of the process of growth. I’m honestly envious.