Even when the first intimate encounter goes really well, there are many cases where the second time feels so incompatible that I end things. It’s not that I’m slacking off—does this happen often?

I'm Meg, a female member. Are there many men who feel that way? If anything, I get more nervous at first. Once I gradually get used to someone, though... they start asking me, perhaps out of concern, “You say some pretty naughty things—were you always like that?” (^_^;)

I’m BB7, a male member. Could the reason things feel less compatible from the second meeting onward be that, the first time around, the excitement, nervousness, and sense of accomplishment make both people feel more exhilarated than they actually are? In reality, there may not be that much difference between the first and second meetings, but by then you’ve already gotten used to each other, so the sense of accomplishment and excitement naturally fade.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. In my case, during the first one or two times, I’m just excited and don’t really know what’s what. But once we’ve gotten comfortable with each other, I feel like I start to experience things more deeply.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Since men can be intimate with pretty much anyone, the first time feels fresh and exciting. Women aren’t likely to genuinely enjoy sex with someone who’s paying them right away, so during the first meeting, they do their best to act like they’re enjoying it so it can lead to a second meeting. By the second time, they’re at least more comfortable, but the man is less excited than he was the first time, so he tends to view things more calmly and may feel it’s not quite enough. You can’t really know whether you’re compatible unless you give it a second and third try. That’s when the real exploration of pleasure begins. Could it be that the woman you’re seeing is actually trying harder the second time? The women at the club are incredibly devoted and kind during the second and third meetings. It still doesn’t compare to sex with genuine love, but the fact that they work so hard to make things enjoyable—that’s something you get precisely because this is a club where you provide an allowance.