How much do you usually spend per date?

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I can’t spend that much, so my usual arrangement is an allowance plus ¥20,000 or so (to cover the meal and love hotel), and we part ways within about four hours. I’ve gone for overnight stays and more expensive meals before, but financially and in terms of the kind of relationship I want, I feel this level is just right.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Are you talking about the cost of every date, rather than the setting fee? Why not keep things within a budget that lets you go on dates every day without overextending yourself? You could even hand her ¥120,000–¥130,000 and say, “Use this however you like for today’s date.” You’ll learn how much she actually wants to keep, and she might even give you some change back. In cases like that, the room can end up changing from a love hotel suite with a rooftop open-air bath to the cheapest room... And the food budget might drop to one-tenth—or even less... If she only takes a modest share, you could add another 20–30%, which would make her very happy. You might even be able to use the change for your next date... P.S. I think the total of around ¥60,000–¥70,000 that Mac mentioned would give you more leeway and make the woman happier. I sometimes spend just under ¥100,000 on the hotel and meal. I choose where to go and how to spend so that at least 70–80% of the date budget goes toward her allowance. Apparently, rather than wasting money on food and other things, women get a better impression when you spend it on someone who’s making an effort for you.

I’m Saito, a columnist♪ It depends on the person. Some women spend as much as ¥1 million on meals alone.