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Oct 13, 2019 14:25
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I’m Saito, the column writer♪
I don’t go looking for hidden gems or bother trying to develop them—that’s not how I enjoy this.
Women who are on the verge of making it have a glow about them already.
With Gold or below, things never last—even if we meet and enter into an adult relationship (intimate). Even Platinum and Black often don’t work out long-term.
And yet, the reality is that I’m introduced to women in even higher classes every day.
I may move up, but I never go down to a lower rank. Just as Mac said in his answer.
Time is precious.
迷わない70代
Male
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パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I’m a lost man in my 60s.
I wouldn’t call myself advanced, but I suppose I’m considered an upper-tier member…
I went from Gold to Platinum and eventually became a Black member. I was perfectly happy with Platinum, but I upgraded to Black because there was a woman I genuinely wanted to make an offer to.
She was a Black, Type B member. We achieved our purpose on the second date, and that was the end of it. She never laid out any specific terms for the relationship, choosing instead to decide whether to continue based on how things went. I was impressed by how skillfully she sorted through men, and we parted ways…
Of course, there are male members who are well suited to dating women registered at the higher levels, such as Black. But I’m not sure it’s really for me. Maybe I’m simply more suited to discovering hidden gems. That’s the kind of Black member I am, still pondering it all… haha.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
I’m not entirely sure what qualifies someone as an “advanced” dater, but I take it to mean a male member who is experienced, doesn’t worry about money, and is popular with women.
I wouldn’t call myself advanced, but I don’t mainly use the Gold class. I enjoy pursuing straightforward OLs or college students—the kind of ordinary B-type women you might meet anywhere—because it somehow reminds me of my younger days. When I want to prioritize the chances of spending time together after dinner, I sometimes go for C-type women as well.
The higher classes certainly have a consistently attractive lineup, but many of the women seem very accustomed to this kind of arrangement, or perhaps more firmly focused on the activity itself. I don’t find them appealing enough to justify the price difference.
Also, I feel that younger women may be evaluated somewhat harshly, perhaps for these reasons, which makes the lower classes more rewarding. Of course, if there were a woman on the level of Satomi Ishihara, I’d love to make an offer—but with everyone rushing to contact her, it’s obvious I wouldn’t stand a chance.
There are plenty of women in Gold B whom the interviewer placed in Gold, but whom I personally feel belong in a higher class, so I’m more than satisfied with the current situation.