I’m a 64-year-old male member.

I’m a lost 60-something. I’m younger than the person asking the question, but we’re almost the same age. Since I moved the area where I’m active, I’ve made a fair number of offers, but I’ve never had a case where I couldn’t even meet someone after making an offer. Of course, I read the women’s profiles carefully and make sure my age isn’t an issue. I also make my own profile public and mention that I maintain my fitness and physique through sports. I can’t exactly post a photo, though… Among the women I’m currently seeing, the biggest age gap is 45 years—the youngest is still in her teens. After that, there’s someone with a 43-year age gap. The other day, I attended a standing, free-form party for the first time. I managed to exchange contact information with several women, and things have progressed beyond that as well. I was able to chat with them without revealing my age. Looks may matter, but I felt that the way you interact with women and your conversational skills make a much bigger difference. If you’re confident in yourself, you might want to try attending that kind of party.

I’m BB7, a male member in my late 40s. In my profile, I include not only my age, but also my hobbies, the kind of relationship I’m looking for, the type of women I’m attracted to, and as much as possible to give women a sense of my personality. I also mention that women who feel they wouldn’t be compatible with this type of person should decline rather than accept my offer. I’ve uploaded photos as well. I ask the staff to make sure women check my profile before making an offer. Even so, I’m turned down about once every ten times. I don’t know whether it’s because of my age or my personality, but even if I’m declined at the offer stage, I’m just glad neither of us has wasted any time. Since you say you’re confident that women will like you once they meet you, I think you should list and highlight your various appealing qualities in your profile.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I’m in my 60s. I list my actual age, height, and weight on my profile. In my case, I either reach out to women who explicitly say things like, “Age isn’t that important to me,” or ask the staff at the club to choose for me from a few candidates. As a result, I’ve been turned down once and had one cancellation, but basically, I don’t think age has ever been the reason I was rejected. The woman I met recently was over 40 years younger than me—so young and cute. Even I was surprised! It was truly the kind of meeting you can only have through a dating club（笑）

I’m Seattle, a male member. I’m 50, so I don’t get rejected too often because of my age. I made offers to nine women and managed to meet five of them. The other four turned me down, and it felt like they weren’t motivated to accept in the first place when I made the offer.