I’m in my early 30s, but since it seems like everyone prefers younger women, I’m starting to lose confidence.
I’m considering Universe because it seems safer than looking through an app, but I get the impression that it may be a bit intimidating.
For reference, my stats are around 112.
I’m narrowing my search to women in their late 20s to 30, so I’m not currently sending offers to women in their early 30s. That said, there are plenty of women in that age group registered, including many with excellent reviews.
I’ve never used any app other than Patro, so I’m not exactly sure what you mean by “safety,” but when it comes to papa-katsu, I imagine there’s a world of difference between looking through Universe Club and using an app.
Since both men and women start with an interview at Universe Club, you could also say that people who don’t pass the screening—or can’t get in at all—end up using apps.
Of course, I’ve heard from people I’ve dated that they use both, so it’s difficult to make a precise comparison.
I hope this helps.
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Even in your early 30s, you’ll be fine if you’re open to an adult relationship (intimate) and have a reasonably attractive appearance.
Honestly, even women in their late 30s to early 40s can do well these days. Everyone puts a lot of effort into their appearance and self-care.
I’m enjoying a monthly arrangement with a woman in her 30s.
I don’t know much about dating clubs other than Universe, but I’ve been with them for seven years, and their management is genuinely solid. They’ve passed reviews by external verification organizations regarding things like personal information, and they’re run as a legitimate company—not by the underworld—with the president out front and proper compliance procedures in place.
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Until recently, I was looking for someone to date, and I even made an offer to a woman in her 30s.
When we actually met, I found her conversation and mannerisms very composed, and she felt like a mature woman（笑）. I think that’s a great age range for men looking for a stable relationship.
However, in my case, she turned me down, saying she already had someone things seemed likely to progress with. Well, I’m an old guy, so I figured it couldn’t be helped and gave up.
So then I tried approaching women in their early 20s, but that hasn’t gone smoothly either—I’ve ended up getting played（笑）.
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> Are women in their 20s the most popular after all?
As I’ve mentioned several times, at Universe, women around 30—roughly 25 to 35—are popular.
> Because there are only young women...
Where did you read that?
Did it seem credible?
At Universe, only male members should be able to view the women’s listings, though...
> Universe seems like it would be safer.
That depends on what you mean specifically by “safer,” but since you have to speak with a staff member in person to join, and the club keeps your identification documents on file, I think it creates an environment where it’s harder for people to do anything improper.
> I have the impression that it’s intimidating to join.
If you apply for an interview, they’ll explain everything during the interview, and you can ask questions. You can also decline afterward.
So I think it’s worth going to the interview.
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I think the balance between supply and demand holds at any age.
At 112, I’d say that’s a pretty ideal body type. Women might worry that it’s too big, but from a man’s perspective, being not too skinny—around that size—is just right.
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If you’re too skinny, you’ll end up with wrinkles, though. Men probably care more about breasts than your overall stats.
Around 30 is the most popular age. It depends on your face—men tend to prefer a natural makeup look over an obvious plastic-surgery look.
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