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Oct 20, 2025 10:38
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For a day trip, you could just put on your makeup before you go and leave it on.
If you’re staying overnight, I think it’s fine to go with makeup on, take it off, and then do your makeup again in the morning.
Someone I used to date said she didn’t want me to see her without makeup, so she took it off after I fell asleep and put it back on before I woke up.
Men actually don’t worry about it as much as you might think, though. Seeing you without makeup feels fresh. I’d like to do it without makeup, but…
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If it’s just a day trip, I think you should wear makeup.
You’d still put on makeup for a date where you go to a love hotel, take a bath, and so on, right?
This may not be helpful since I’m speaking from a man’s perspective, but I always style my hair properly before going on a hot spring date. After washing it, I just style it again.
I’ve never even considered going on a date with a woman without styling my hair just because I’ll be washing it.
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Why does going bare-faced even come up as an option when you’re going to a day-use hot spring?
If the other person likes women without makeup, wouldn’t you normally go on dates bare-faced anyway? If that’s not the case, it seems more typical to wear makeup.
For an overnight stay, I can understand hesitating, but even then, I feel it’s more common to put on makeup when you go—even if they’ll eventually see you without it when you sleep.
Of course, if you’re going on a date with a man who likes women without makeup, I assume you’d adjust to his preference.
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You mentioned going to a day-use hot spring, but are you going there just for the hot spring?
I also go to day-use hot springs with women, but I usually fit it in toward the latter half of a day that includes several sightseeing stops.
(If it’s a private bath at a day-use hot spring, men and women can bathe together, but the public baths and saunas are separated by gender, right? Are you planning to spend the whole time apart?)
I guess you should confirm the date plans with the man and decide from there.
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I think you’re posting this because you want someone to tell you, “Think for yourself” or “Talk it over with him,” so here you go:
I think you should discuss it with that man.