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Oct 3, 2025 05:34
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I started my club activities at 43, and I’m now in my seventh year.
I varied the allowance quite a bit during my first year, but since the second year, I’ve basically kept it fixed at 5.
I’m willing to go above 5 for a first date if it’s a long-distance date, but considering my arrangements with other women, it has never progressed to a second meeting.
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顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
On Patro, you can message people directly, so when I ask B2 and C-type women about their desired allowance before the first meeting, almost all of them say 50,000 yen. I’m not sure whether that’s the going rate, but it’s the same regardless of class—both Black and Standard.
I’m talking about women who don’t list their desired amount in their profiles. For those who do, I’ve seen both higher and lower amounts.
I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) about three years ago, when I was 44. I only vaguely knew it existed, but Universe Club completely changed my perspective.
Hope this helps.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Black-tier women: ¥100,000
Platinum-tier women: ¥70,000
Gold-tier women: ¥50,000
Standard-tier women: ¥30,000
I think that’s about right, just as Mr. Maezawa says.
👨 Male
Universe member
Oh wow (ﾟoﾟ)/
Fuu, you’re quick!
I started papa-katsu when I was about your age, and now I’m an old man（笑）
I’m currently looking, and one of the papa-katsu girls I met recently called me “old man”（笑）
If things work out with this girl, I guess that’ll be the final decision?（笑）
I feel like I’m nearing my limit with papa-katsu, and it looks like I’ll probably end up having only two relationships in total（笑）
Oh, as for the going rate—
I negotiated recently, and I guess my allowance has gotten more generous to match my age（笑）
Well, there’s really no fixed going rate!
That’s all I wanted to say!
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Started at 45 ♡ (if I remember correctly), and I’m 52 now.
I guess I’m entering my seventh or eighth year.
I was never popular with women, but thanks to how this works, I’ve had adult relationships with about enough women to fill a girls’ school classroom, lol.
(I’ve passed the 50 mark.) I’ve even kept a “conquest log,” like Protan or Hikaru, lol. (Please be extremely careful about leaks.)
They’ve generally been pretty high-level women too, so experience really does build confidence. At this age, I’ve finally learned how to bring a woman to climax through foreplay.
Also, as you get older, the definition of “handsome” seems to gradually fade, while cleanliness and money become more important. At least, that’s how it feels to me. I honestly feel like I’m more popular now than I’ve ever been in my life.
I’ve been taking more women in their twenties out for drinks and dinner, and I’ve even experienced a few miracle situations where things happened occasionally outside of papa-katsu too.
(Although their overall level is lower than that of women in papa-katsu.)
I’m living my best life. (That phrase is kind of old, lol.)
Long live papa-katsu, long live Universe!
To keep my libido from fading, I work out, watch what I eat, cut back on carbs, and stopped drinking every day.
Can I have adult relationships with 100 women?
A parody of “Can I make 100 friends?”
That’s what I’m aiming for. Life only comes around once, so I intend to enjoy it as far as I can—and all I can do is hope my libido never dries up, lol.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
It can’t be helped.
I came across some guidance that was given to male members during Universe’s early days, so I’ll share it here. Men who joined back then presumably paid female members these allowances.
“The approximate allowances requested by female members are as follows:
Standard: 30,000 yen
Gold: 50,000 yen
Platinum: 70,000 yen
Black: 100,000 yen
*Please note that a separate setting fee is charged by our club.”
The club’s stance was that, since this wasn’t a sex-work establishment, it hadn’t set these amounts—it was simply communicating the allowances requested by the women.
Apparently, men have always struggled with the question of how much allowance they should give. So I assume this was one of the common questions after joining, and that the club handed out guidance like this to men immediately after they enrolled.
In other words, it seems reasonable for male members to expect to give:
100,000 yen for a Black member
70,000 yen for a Platinum member
50,000 yen for a Gold member
30,000 yen for a Standard member
Of course, some women may request more, while others may agree to less.
As for what women should do, that depends on the individual—but I’ll save that for another occasion.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
The 21-year-old I’ve been seeing recently said she started having adult relationships (intimate) when she was 12, in her first year of middle school. Her first allowance was 5,000 yen. She was a child who wasn’t fed at home and survived on school lunches, so when she received the 5,000 yen, she thought, “Yes! Now I can eat for a whole month!” Living on 5,000 yen for a month is incredible.
Another 19-year-old told me she met her papa once or twice a week during her first or second year of high school, without an adult relationship, and received around 100,000 yen a month. She only had one papa. Since minors can’t register on apps, they have to look on X, and apparently it’s hard to find a papa in rural areas. As soon as she turned 18, that man immediately had an adult relationship with her, and she lost her virginity. That papa was a single man around 40, but he became a stalker, her parents found out, and it ended up involving the police. Since nothing had happened while she was a minor, he wasn’t arrested. After that, she met one other person, and I’m her third—50,000 yen pay-per-meeting.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you keep receiving questions about allowances even though your profile is hidden, then it’s safe to assume they’re pranks from the same person.
Allowance amounts vary from person to person—there’s no standard rate that applies to everyone.