How much do women usually write in their profiles—the section where they can freely add comments?
I write things like a self-introduction, my personality, what I envision for a date, and “I’d love to talk with men like this!” I also revise it from time to time, but I haven’t received any offers or favorites, which feels pretty discouraging.
I’ve heard that male members place more importance on women’s photos and videos, but if there’s anything that’s effective to include in the written profile—or anything you think women should definitely write—I’d appreciate your advice.
By the way… there’s a male member who edits his comments every two or three days so his profile is always displayed near the top. It honestly puts me off quite a bit.
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I looked at the 11 newest women with over 100 favorites, and only one of them had written a comment.
That one comment was 111 characters long.
I also noticed that, when searching through the women’s listings, very few had the “Comment from the woman” section displayed. Women who haven’t written one don’t have the section displayed at all, so I was worried it had been discontinued without my realizing it and even asked another staff member about it.
Regardless of the number of favorites, I eventually found someone whose comment was displayed. Hers was 454 characters long.
Since it took quite a while to find anyone who had written one, my impression this time was that not many women are writing comments these days.
Come to think of it, the fact that they were so hard to find means that women don’t get ranked higher even if they write a comment, right?
I think it may be better to aim for a reshoot.
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Me too!
I think your introduction is fine as it is.
Since everyone says it’s better not to make too many changes, how about adding or removing a period at the end of the text and then editing it that way?
I believe your profile will appear at the top, right? Male members won’t know what you changed, and it might help you stand out（笑）
Self-promotion is important!
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Rewriting it isn’t a good idea.
Your profile may leave a better impression if you keep it as it was when you first joined—or as it was when you re-registered—instead of continually updating it.
Even having nothing written in your profile can give a good impression. If you’ve rewritten it many times, I think it would be better to delete it if that’s possible. The fact that you keep rewriting it may already be off-putting.
A long profile written by the staff can make you seem more appealing, so you could have new photos taken and ask them to write something like that. Alternatively, you could cancel your membership, wait a while, then re-register and ask them not to add any comments.
Even so, your original membership date will still be displayed, so aside from new men, there may be very few reasons for people to make you an offer.
You might have better luck finding offers through a dating club other than Universe.
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She seems pretty self-focused—there’s a lot of “me, me, me.”
Things like:
“I can adapt to my partner.”
“I enjoy listening.”
“I’ll do my best to make you feel relaxed.”
If you really want an offer and don’t mind a sexually forward papa, you could use words that hint at that kind of thing:
“I’m an M.”
“I’ll do my best to fulfill a man’s wishes.”
“I’m pretty comfortable with adult relationships.”
“I prefer older men.”
Once, her looks weren’t really my type, but her profile said, “I like being taken from behind in a dark room,” and I almost sent her an offer without thinking—lol. Maybe only Fuu likes being taken from behind?
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I’d say roughly this length, or maybe a little longer.
Photos and videos aren’t particularly important to me. I choose women based on their hobbies and work, so I value introductions that focus on those things.
As for personality, people are naturally only going to write about their good points, so I don’t find that very helpful. If the dating image they describe doesn’t align with my own interests, I feel we wouldn’t be a good match and don’t make an offer. The same goes for the kind of man they say they want to talk to.
Like the person who asked the question, I’m also put off by women who constantly update their comments.
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