I’ve been seeing a woman for about two years in an adult relationship (intimate).
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There was about a year when we didn’t see each other, and when we met again after that, her makeup had changed and she seemed much more skilled. I asked if she’d been seeing someone else, but she said she hadn’t.
I understand if she saw someone else during the time we weren’t meeting, but now we see each other regularly. When I ask whether she’s been seeing anyone else during this time, she still says no.
What do you all think?
What a ridiculous thing to ask. I thought you were asking as part of some playful role-play.
Even if that’s the case, it’s not a very good game to play.
To begin with, what exactly do you want to know? If she were seeing another man, would you break up with her? If so, I think you should end things regardless of whether it’s true or not. There’s no point continuing a relationship when you don’t trust her.
Besides, the woman’s answer was perfectly natural. Even if she is seeing another man, it’s understandable that she would say she isn’t.
I don’t know whether you want her to admit she’s seeing someone else, but if she did, would you trust her then? Or would you get angry?
I honestly don’t understand what you’re trying to accomplish.
If you want to continue seeing her, then just keep seeing her. If you don’t trust her, then simply end things.
If you want to have her all to yourself, I’m almost tempted to ask whether you’re giving her more than ¥1 million a month.
Even ¥1 million might not be enough to expect exclusivity.
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Of course she’s seeing other people—that’s normal.
Why would it be wrong for her to meet others?
She can’t get by on the allowance she receives from you alone, haha.
Since you seem unhappy about it, she’s forcing herself to tell you a kind lie.
If you also date multiple people, your feelings won’t be focused so intensely on just one person.
Try finding lots of women here.
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As you can imagine, there must have been another man involved.
It’s tactless to ask a woman about something she’d have trouble answering. That said, I’m no one to talk—I sometimes whisper things like “Do what you learned from someone else” while being intimate with a girl I haven’t seen in a while, in a sort of verbal-teasing way.
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You’re over 40 and asking strangers online a question like this? Pathetic.
My honest reaction is that you’re seriously mistaken.
What exactly are you expecting from someone with whom you merely had a “physical relationship,” especially when you barely saw each other for about a year out of those two years?
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