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Feb 17, 2025 09:56
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A friend of mine does papa-katsu too, and she said she just makes up something about her dreams, but she wouldn’t tell me what she says.
She has lots of papas and is apparently very good at it, even though she genuinely has no dreams at all. (Apparently, her real dream is to buy a luxury high-rise apartment.)
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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It’s actually better if she doesn’t have any big dreams or ambitions. I prefer papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with a woman who has a regular day job.
People with dreams often need money to pursue them, so I’m put off when money is too obviously their main focus.
I’m guessing that woman is either attractive, open to an adult relationship (intimate), or has a charming personality. I don’t think her dreams are the real reason.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not interested in a woman’s dreams or aspirations. As long as we have a good time when we’re together, that’s enough. When she starts talking about her dreams, depending on how she puts it, I can’t help but feel that she’s only putting up with me for the money. Even if I already know that’s probably the case, it still kills the mood.
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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If he really wanted to be a “Daddy Longlegs,” he’d go to a charity rather than a club like this.
For a papa (a male supporter), it may be easier to pay when there’s a reason to do so. So the dream doesn’t have to be anything serious.
On the other hand, being told that someone genuinely has a serious illness and desperately needs money can feel too heavy and put him in an awkward position.
I’m not interested in my partner’s personal information, so I don’t care whether her dream is real. It’s like we’re appearing in a drama together: she plays the role of a woman pursuing her dreams, and I play the role of supporting her. As long as we can enjoy our time together, that’s enough for me.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think that’s necessarily true. Personally, I’m not interested in other people’s dreams.