Why do some people insist on going to business hotels or traditional inns?
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I’ve told them, “The baths are too small, so I’d rather go to a love hotel where we can stretch out and relax together. We don’t have to worry about being quiet, the amenities are provided, and I don’t mind if anything gets messy there,” but some people refuse to go to a love hotel no matter what. What are they thinking?
Even if they’re claiming it as a business expense, wouldn’t a day trip to a business hotel or inn on a day off raise questions?
I thought maybe they were worried about being followed by a private investigator, but then they don’t insist on private dining rooms and even want to hold hands along the way, which makes no sense.
If it were just one person, I’d let it go, but I’ve met several people like this. Is there some reason behind it?
Are you based somewhere outside Tokyo?
If he’s a salaryman papa doing papa-katsu while traveling from Tokyo to regional areas, he can probably expense a business hotel.
If you don’t like it, I think you should just end things. That said, Fuu also prefers love hotels, so I can understand where you’re coming from.
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A resort-style evolution of love hotels is called a leisure hotel, so why not suggest one of those?
I use leisure hotels almost exclusively myself.
Personally, I don’t like waiting outside alone while my partner takes a bath, so I prefer bathing together. Especially in winter, while one person is showering, the other will often soak in the tub. Naturally, that makes you want to get in the tub together with a woman too.
Since bath time tends to run a little longer, someone who prefers to keep it short might not be a fan.
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Good evening, and thank you for your hard work as always—or are you someone new?
Everyone has their own way of thinking, after all.
I’m more of a love hotel person, but for some reason, I have fond memories of business hotels too—whether with a club woman or a girlfriend. Just being told to come to wherever the club woman was staying was enough to get my heart racing… And since there wasn’t much time, that made it even more exciting…
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Business hotels do tend to have tiny bathrooms, so I can see why you’d wonder, “Why is that?”
Most have a combined bathroom and toilet, which can be unpleasant in itself.
That said, if you look around, you can find business hotels with separate bathrooms and toilets, so two people can use the tub together. It’s still a little cramped for two people to actually soak in the tub, though.
I feel like quite a few traditional inns have baths large enough for two people, so perhaps it’s just a matter of which inns you’ve been choosing.
That said, I don’t think there are that many women who specifically want to soak in the tub together. There’s the issue of getting their hair wet, for one thing, and I feel that many women aren’t in the habit of soaking in a tub in the first place.
If anything, perhaps because of generational differences, men seem more likely to want to soak in the tub together.
So if a man chooses a business hotel, it probably means he doesn’t want to share a bath. And if most women don’t particularly want to soak together either, then it seems fairly reasonable.
You may be in the minority on this point, but that doesn’t mean you have to go along with the majority. You could simply tell him that you’d prefer a hotel with a tub large enough for two people.
What I don’t understand is why you’re writing about it here without telling him.
Is there some reason you haven’t mentioned it to him directly?
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I’m honestly grateful for the existence of those stingy papas who call women “money-hungry” just because they want a higher allowance, despite offering very little themselves.
They end up labeling me as a top-tier papa even though I haven’t done anything.
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