I received a slightly sarcastic remark along the lines of, “You seem to be enjoying yourself.” (Another papa asked me, “How do you have so much money?” Of course I have money—I work my regular job and do papa-katsu. What a tacky question.)
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Would the men I’m seeing prefer me to hide all my overseas trips and outings and pretend to be a poor woman who stays home all the time?
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Good for you that you’re making money.
You’re practically made of validation-seeking, and the “glamorous girl” vibe is coming through loud and clear. If you can’t hide it, don’t force yourself. Even so, I hope you find a good papa (a male supporter) to date.
As for me, I avoid women like that—women who seem like they’d be expensive.
I’m not judging you. Actresses make money from how well they act; they’re bundles of lies who elevate lying into an art form. I’m sure there are men who are drawn to that kind of feminine allure.
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Male members are all individuals with their own personalities, so I don’t think there’s a one-size-fits-all answer about what you should do.
Personally, I’ve never met anyone who could keep up an act that completely, and I tend to be wary of people who seem to be pretending to be someone they’re not. I also don’t find a woman who stays home all the time because she’s poor particularly appealing.
A monthly overseas trip? That sounds great. Being free enough to have that much time is a good thing, and I think it’s fun and nice that you send him photos too.
That said, there are also people like your partner who make sarcastic remarks. People simply have different ways of thinking.
I think it’s better not to assume there’s one definitive answer about what someone “should” do.
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To men, it probably came across as an irritating humblebrag.
If you’re trying to give the impression that you don’t live a flashy lifestyle, why announce that you go abroad every month?
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I like honest girls, so I’d actually have a better impression of you if you were upfront about having a boyfriend, seeing another papa, traveling overseas, or having breast augmentation.
That said, most men would probably dislike it and cut ties. Creepy as it is, older guys believe they can genuinely have a romantic relationship with a young woman, so I think nine times out of ten, they’ll leave once they find out there’s another man.
> Would it be better for the men I’m seeing if I hid everything—like traveling abroad or going out—and pretended to be a poor woman who stays home all the time?
Yes. I think the approach above is the safest.
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