I feel like my papa (male supporter) is starting to get bored with me.
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He doesn’t look as happy to see me as he used to.
I think we may be seeing each other too often.
I’m afraid that if I cut back on our meetings, he’ll really lose interest in me.
Please give me advice on how to keep this arrangement going, rather than telling me to move on to someone else.
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Academically speaking:
- The Coolidge effect
- Dopamine-fueled passion is cut in half after six months
- Dopamine wears off after three years
Doing the same thing every time can get boring, so try changing things up in ways your papa might enjoy.
Change your approach:
- Take the lead yourself
- Say, “I’ll do whatever you want today”
- Try cosplay, a swimsuit, or sexy lingerie
Change the setting:
- The bathroom, the sofa, outdoors, or in the car
Maybe you just need a little stimulation.
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She may not be looking unhappy because she’s tired of meeting you—she could simply have something else on her mind. I don’t think you should assume the worst.
That said, since you plan to continue seeing her, how about trying something like this:
Ask with concern: “You seem a little down lately. Are you busy? Is everything okay?”
Reminisce: “We had fun doing ___ before, didn’t we?”
Suggest something new: “Why don’t we do ___ next time?”
Try to approach it that way.
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself—just take it easy.
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I’ve met plenty of women myself, and there are several relationships that have continued like an unbreakable old tie.
In my case, as long as we have memories of having had an incredibly fun time together in the past, it’s all good. For example, we used to drive around in the Magic Mirror van I’ve since sold, visit mixed-gender hot springs, go to swingers’ clubs, and so on.
You may eventually get tired of the activities themselves once you’ve done everything, but the memories you shared remain. Just having someone who shares those memories with me makes me feel indebted to them, so I would almost never be the one to cut things off.
They’re the people who brought color to my life.
It’s like owning a beloved car. It may not feel new anymore because I’m used to it, but I have no intention of letting it go.
Hopefully, the questioner’s papa (a male supporter) is the same type as me.
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I think the hints to the answer are hidden in the question itself.
“I have a feeling…” → Could it be that you’re the one getting bored first?
“She doesn’t seem to be enjoying herself as much as before.” → You’ve probably been smiling less too, haven’t you?
“I think we’re meeting too often.” → That’s probably true.
“I’m afraid she’ll get tired of me.” → Generally speaking, humans are creatures that get bored.
Reducing how often you meet might be one option. Generally speaking, though, that also means reducing the allowance. Your papa’s smiles may have decreased because paying the allowance has become a burden for him.
Allow me to share a little about the women I see. Thankfully—or perhaps questionably—I’m currently dating four women. The nature of each relationship varies and continues to change. Broadly speaking, I think it comes down to finding a balance between the amount paid and the satisfaction we get from the relationship. That balance rarely matches perfectly between two people, but I believe there is a point that feels right for both.
I don’t have any specific advice, but rather than simply watching your partner’s reactions, take a moment to look inward and try to find a balanced relationship that both of you can accept.
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Are you having orgasms from penetration?
If not, I think it’s worth slowly learning to fake them. Try gradually increasing the number of times you “come”—just a little at a time, so he doesn’t notice. You can also gradually make your moans a bit louder.
Men are simple. They’ll easily convince themselves, “Wow, my dick feels that good to her? What a cute girl.” Your arrangement will be set for the long term.
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I don’t think boredom is caused by how often you meet.
It sounds like you already recognize that if you reduce how often you see him, he might genuinely lose interest.
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