It varies from girl to girl—anywhere from one or two hours to around ten—but there are also girls who stay for five or six hours every time. She’s the club woman I’ve been seeing the longest, so I don’t really think six hours is that long…
If a girl feels like five or six hours have flown by, she’ll naturally suggest going somewhere afterward, say she’s getting hungry, mention a movie she wants to see, and so on…
Even if we don’t go to a hotel—which means there’s no allowance for an adult relationship and the allowance doesn’t increase—when the allowance is substantial, both the person giving it and the person receiving it can feel awkward, right? Apparently, half a day can pass in the blink of an eye. I do sometimes feel like I’d rather be released sooner, but I don’t dislike it, so I try to accommodate all her requests… That’s how much I like her.
The difference in how long each girl stays seems to depend on how much time she spends hanging out with other girls. Girls who often spend a long time having fun with a close female friend throughout the night seem to have longer stays when they’re with me, too.
Occasionally, there are girls who call me because hanging out with girls their own age is boring.
Some girls will meet up quickly when they happen to have a couple of free hours, while others say that one or two hours is too short and they can’t accept an allowance for that.
If you feel the allowance is worthwhile, you’ll probably become quite mindful of the time as well…
If you want to build a good relationship and enjoy the dating club, neither side wants everything to feel like it’s all about money. I think the time naturally flies when you’re simply having fun together.
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Yes, when I went to Nagoya, Mac kept things reasonable without dragging out the time.
Back when I was doing pay-per-meeting arrangements, they usually lasted about three hours. Now I have a monthly arrangement, so it varies—from an hour for dinner only to eight hours.
If there’s nothing else planned, six hours feels a little long to me.
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It varies so much depending on the person and the day that an average is completely meaningless.
If we’re just meeting up briefly after work, it’s usually around 2–5 hours. If we stay overnight or play golf, it can be more than 10 hours. And if we travel together, it can be anywhere from 2–5 days.
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At lunchtime today, I met up with two papa-katsu friends at Komeda from 11:30, chatted for a while, then went with one of them to a rented apartment and had sex. We wrapped up around 1:30, so about two hours.
Tonight, I’m going out for cutlets with the 18-year-old I’m living with and the girl who’s on adult-duty—again, the three of us. We’ll probably call it a night around 9, so just under three hours.
I plan my schedule and keep things moving so I don’t just drag things out to kill time. That’s probably why my meetups are short. People like Seattle-san and Frame-san, who have hung out with me before, probably understand.
When we stay overnight, it lasts more than 12 hours. The allowance stays the same.
Earlier, after work, the 18-year-old gave me oral sex for three minutes. Someday, I’d like to have her sit naked by the entrance and greet me with oral sex.
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On average, I’d say it’s around two and a half hours.
Some girls are done after an hour, while others will spend as long as six hours together.
The allowance varies too.
If I’m having a great time with someone, I’ll stay out longer and give her a generous allowance. But if two hours is about my limit for enjoying her company, I keep the allowance more modest.
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Following the club’s guidelines, I usually spend about two hours over a meal, and if we go to a hotel, that’s another two hours or so—four hours total at most.
Sometimes I get tired and wrap things up a little early. I’ve never been on a date that lasted six hours. I think it varies from person to person.
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There’s no point in asking what the average is in a situation like this.
Since the man wants to go on a six-hour date, I think you’ll need to spend six hours with him if you want to continue seeing him. Even if you tell him you’d like to see him again, he may simply look for another woman who’s willing to go on six-hour dates, so I don’t think the dates will become any shorter.
You should also decide for yourself what the ideal length is. If you have a preferred duration, you can simply look for a man whose dates fit that timeframe.
If you’re not comfortable with a six-hour date, I think you should look for a man who’s okay with the length of date you prefer. Of course, if you’re willing to consider finding someone else, you could first try telling your current partner how long you’d ideally like the date to be—you have nothing to lose.
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On weekdays, I can meet for 3–4 hours after work. On weekends, it’s twice as long—6–8 hours. We might go to a shopping mall or a theme park. I set different allowance amounts for weekdays and weekends.
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