My papa (a male supporter) told me, “Next time, I’ll apply an aphrodisiac to your private area.” He said this because I’ve never climaxed during an adult relationship (intimate) with him.

An aphrodisiac generally refers to a drug that heightens sexual desire or evokes romantic feelings. Under the law, drugs with those effects would fall under stimulants or psychotropic substances. There are no legal drugs that can be used to increase sexual desire or enhance sexual sensitivity. So, for answer A: there are no legal aphrodisiacs. For answer B: all you can do is refuse the aphrodisiac. If it works, it’s illegal. If it doesn’t work, it’s a fake—and therefore not an aphrodisiac in the first place. For answer C: under Japanese law, there is nothing legal that actually works as an aphrodisiac. Decent people don’t associate with people who seem connected to organized crime. They become involved in that world so they can openly do illegal things and cheat the system. Their thinking and behavior are completely warped, so you can easily end up caught up in a crime without realizing it—like being entrusted with something that turns out to be illegal, or driving a car and unknowingly aiding a crime. You’re at a crossroads: either end up going back and forth between prison and the outside world as an underworld figure’s mistress, die as a victim of papa-katsu and drug-assisted sex, or somehow make it back safely and unharmed.

A. I don’t think there’s anything effective enough to call it an “A effect.” B. I think the best thing is not to get involved with anyone suspicious. C. None. I felt sorry for them, thinking they seemed like they’d be absolutely terrible at sex.

There seem to be some plant-based, organic options as well, but it’s hard to say whether they actually work. You should also ask to see the unopened packaging clearly. By the way, you mentioned that “your papa seems to give off an antisocial-criminal vibe and may have applied illegal drugs to you…”—are you okay? It’s possible that’s just how you felt and that he’s actually not involved in anything like that, but Universe Club is supposed to reject membership applications from people connected to organized crime.

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It’s only natural to be concerned when something is being applied to such a sensitive area. That said, I think you’re asking because you’d be willing to go along with it if it seemed reasonably safe, since there are men who are into that sort of thing. As a precaution, ask to see the medication before it’s opened. Then carefully read what’s written on the container or box. Even if it’s from overseas, if it was properly imported, there should be a Japanese label or instructions included. It’s important to read them carefully and decide for yourself whether you’re comfortable with it. If there’s no information in Japanese, it would be best to decline and explain that products without Japanese labeling make you uncomfortable. That way, he may bring something with Japanese labeling next time. As for the aphrodisiac itself, I’m not sure whether there are any products that genuinely work, but generally speaking, there seem to be cooling, tingling types and warming types. Which one suits you depends on the person, but since your attention becomes focused on that area, it might have a slight psychological effect even if there’s no direct effect. So it’s hard to imagine that applying it alone would make things progress, but it could potentially serve as one of the triggers. You seem to be considering buying one yourself, but it might also be a good idea to search online together or visit a shop that sells adult toys together.

A: Viagra works for men, but there’s no Western medicine that works for women. B: If he’s a creepy older guy, you have no choice but to end things.